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WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

BEST OF WITH LOVE, DANIELLE: Please Don't Ask If You're Worthy

WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

Danielle LaPorte

Education, Self-improvement

4.9712 Ratings

🗓️ 31 July 2024

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

We don't actually need a pep talk about our worthiness.

Because…We're all "worthy." And the "worthiness" questioning is, actually, absurd.

No one needs to quantify or qualify themselves for Love. Not one Soul, ever.

We don't have to establish if we deserve more ease, happiness, or Loving Kindness.

Here it is: when we spend energy questioning and bidding to see if we're valued or worthy…it distracts us from healing.

All that asking and validation seeking actually creates MORE confusion and perceived woundedness inside of us.

Episode 127 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is a BEST OF episode from last summer, one of our most popular episodes to date—Please Don't Ask If You're Worthy.

Here's what we get into…

  • What happens when we become more blind to our inherent, DIVINE WORTH? (We spin.)
  • Why do we believe we need to earn our worth? And, 
  • When we find ourselves asking ourselves or others (typically unconsciously) if we're worthy or valuable, instead, let's wonder, "Why did I ask that?" It's a popcorn trail to your pain and power.
  • Here's a life shifting question to apply, DAILY: What does my unhealed self need right now? (aka, your Inner Child)

This episode includes a short visualization exercise that I guide and it's simple enough to remember that you can take it with you. 

We have been in this worthy/unworthy dialogue for eons, it is part of the human dance––so we have some stuff to unpack.

With Love,

Danielle

 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, hey, I'm doing a little best of retrospective as selected by a beautiful population of listeners.

0:11.6

I would love to give this title some emphasis because then it really just gets my point across.

0:17.9

Without emphasis, it would sound like this.

0:19.7

Please don't ask if you're worthy. With emphasis,

0:23.0

it's please don't ask if you're worthy. And that is why we're here. Really, this is a conversation

0:30.3

about the kinds of questions that come up from the unhealed self, from the ego, and the kinds of

0:37.0

questions that the heart the divine mother

0:40.7

your healed self your buddha nature would never even dream of asking so i am coming at you on

0:48.7

this beautiful summer day from my living room with lots happening right in front of me on the beach

0:54.0

and i am so glad you here and you know what you can ask me anything from my living room with lots happening right in front of me on the beach.

0:56.0

And I am so glad you here.

0:56.6

And you know what?

0:59.6

You can ask me anything, anytime.

1:00.2

Woo!

1:04.5

You can email me at Support at Danielle Laporte.

1:08.2

Give me questions for the podcast, questions about business, all the things.

1:11.4

But please, don't ask if you're worthy.

1:22.3

If you are interested in the life-changing power of self-compassion, if you are curious about shadow work, if you want to be more receptive to higher guidance, well, hello, I am Danielle Leport, and this is

1:31.1

with love, Danielle. Hello, my loves. Today we're going to talk about worthiness and how silly really

1:43.3

it is to even question our worthiness. I want to talk about the

1:49.1

agitation that is sort of a sidecar to querying, to asking other people to validate our worth for

2:00.7

us because it never works out.

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