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The Bert Show

So many people trying to take control of the wedding and the plans. We all heard the phrase

Bridezilla. But then you got mom zillas also. And here is where our problem starts this morning.

Hey, Bert Show. P1 here. I've heard so many stories of wedding drama and I didn't think it could be

that bad. I just got engaged exactly

one week ago today after 10 years and I totally understand that my parents are excited but dang

my mom is already stressing me out. He and I had already decided that our wedding would be on a cruise

to the Caribbean with immediately family members only. Parents, step parents, siblings with

their spouses and kids, a maid of honor, and a best man. Maybe 20 people tops. We're looking at dates

in early summer of 2026 so that the three kids will all be graduated from high school. That's

two and a half years from now. Plus, we're paying for all of it,

so we need time to save. We plan to have a reception afterwards for other family and friends,

and my mom knew this, all caps. I specifically told her that we were keeping plans off social media

so that anyone not invited on the cruise wouldn't be offended.

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