Best Of: The Lies of Monogamy w/ Dr. Shefali

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 14 June 2024

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

Ever wondered how culture has molded your sexuality? My guest, Dr. Shefali Tsabury, dives deep into this topic on today’s throwback ep, revealing how societal norms have conditioned us to suppress our true desires, cheat ourselves, and live inauthentically. But here's the twist: radically authentic love and desire are within reach! All it takes is confronting the myths we've been fed and making a conscious choice to live freely. Ready to break free and embrace your true self? Tune in. In this episode you’ll learn: How to rethink marriage as a model for growth All about monogamy and why it’s the societal norm (and if it’s even natural…) How to replace societal conditioning with worthiness Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! Dr. Shefali: Instagram | Website Podcast: Parenting & You with Dr. Shefali SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Try the LELO SONA 2 TRAVEL today and get 25% when you use code SEXWITHEMILY at checkout. Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

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0:00.0	We are doing our part to allow the takers in our eyes to take or whatever dynamic we set up in our lives to take or whatever dynamic we've set up in our lives.
0:14.0	It's not that it's not true that they are with a narciss's taker.
0:18.0	Of course they are, but they have to look at what they're doing
0:21.0	to maintain the citadel of that relationship.
0:24.0	It's a fortress and it takes two to keep the fortress up.
0:28.4	You're listening to Sex With Emily.
0:30.6	I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and
0:34.1	liberate the conversation around sex. On today's show I'm joined by author and
0:40.0	psychologist Dr. Schifale to discuss what culture has done to our sexuality.
0:44.3	Dr. Schifale talks about how to turn your pain into power, how to rethink marriage
0:49.4	as a model for growth, whether monogamy is natural or not, and how to replace societal
0:55.8	conditioning with something more wild, interesting, and frankly pretty sexy, and
1:01.8	that is worthiness. Now Dr. Shvallia's specific opinions about
1:06.7	marriage and monogamy coming from her own experiences. She's also speaking from
1:11.0	a heteroormative perspective during this interview and I just want
1:13.8	to acknowledge that penis and vulva owners have varying desires and motivation.
1:18.5	So it's completely valid if you're different from the people described here, but I'm certain that you will find
1:25.5	something to relate to in this episode. These are just generalizations and
1:29.9	stereotypes used to describe our culture more than any individual.
1:33.4	Please rate and review, sex with Emily, wherever you listen to the show, it's so easy to rate
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