Best of: Redefining What it Means to be a Man with Brett McKay
The Unmistakable Creative Podcast
Srinivas Rao
4.8 • 1K Ratings
🗓️ 21 June 2019
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
To Brett McKay, the definition of “what it means to be a man” has taken a turn for the worst and is now a caricature of what it was just seven or eight decades ago. During a visit to his local bookstore, he was frustrated by the quality of the men’s magazines they had for sale which inspired him to start The Art of Manliness. Hear what he thinks makes a “real man” and why he wants to change the definition.
Brett McKay is the founder and editor-in-chief of The Art of Manliness and author of The Illustrated Art of Manliness: The Essential How-To Guide
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| 0:00.0 | What I meanlyness is bring back this what I call it as a classical ideal of manliness. |
| 0:08.5 | What I mean by that is the idea of manliness that started with the ancient Greeks, the ancient Romans, and really was |
| 0:17.5 | with us in the west until about the 1950s, 1960s, when a lot of the, you know, |
| 0:23.4 | with the social changes we had during that time. |
| 0:26.2 | And what I mean by the classical idea of manliness |
| 0:28.4 | is, you know, if you asked someone like on the street, |
| 0:31.7 | like what in ancient Rome or even in |
| 0:34.9 | American 17th you know the 19th century or someone in the 19th century like what does |
| 0:39.6 | manliness mean to to you and they would say things like oh well being a man or manliness means you know |
| 0:46.8 | being a man of virtue means being you know having strength having not just physical strength but also moral and intellectual |
| 0:56.7 | strength courage means having honor it means being industrious it means |
| 1:00.7 | providing and contributing. |
| 1:04.0 | That was another important, it was being a man in ancient Rome and even in America |
| 1:10.0 | until fairly recently, being a man meant you had to contribute to society. |
| 1:16.6 | You had to be engaged in the public sphere and not think only about yourself. |
| 1:22.5 | And to me that's just that tastes good, that idea of manly. |
| 1:28.3 | And now when you ask what, you know, guys like what does it mean to be manly like they'll say dumb stuff like |
| 1:33.9 | oh be manly means like sports and playing video games and like eating meat and it's |
| 1:41.0 | it's very manliness in today is very self-centered I feel like very narcissistic and so |
| 1:46.7 | we're trying to bring kind of re-revives this idea of manliness being something |
| 1:52.4 | more positive instead of sort of the what we sort of |
| 1:56.0 | the I guess it's more cartoonish what we have today. I'm Srenny Rao and this is the unmistakable Creative Podcast where you get a window |
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