Best Of: Kink & Casual Sex w/ Justin Lehmiller

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 20 August 2024

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Are you suddenly feeling a little...kinkier? According to my guest, social psychologist, and Kinsey Institute researcher Justin Lehmiller, a lot of us are ready to sex-periment right now. Justin shares fascinating sex research from the COVID era, the sex communication practices heterosexual individuals can learn from the LGBTQ+ community, and how to make casual sex better for women. (Spoiler alert: emphasize her pleasure.) We also unpack the Kinsey Scale and why sexuality is so freaking fluid, why threesomes are such a popular fantasy, and what our porn preferences reveal (and don’t reveal) about us. Finally, we talk about sex education as it’s practiced in The Netherlands, and give you some incredibly useful tools for talking to your kids about sex (because it’s really important!). In this episode, you’ll learn: How to Improve Casual Sex Insights from the LGBTQ+ Community Tools for talking to your kids about sex Show Notes: More Justin Lehmiller : Website | Instagram | X | Podcast | Book Yes! No! Maybe? Guide Try the ENIGMA™ Cruise Today! (Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

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0:00.0	One of the key things we saw in that research was that for the people who managed after that year to still be on good terms with their friends with benefit.
0:14.0	They had the communication in the beginning.
0:16.0	They set the ground rules.
0:17.8	Got on the same page about what their expectations were.
0:20.1	What is this and what isn't this?
0:22.7	You're listening to Sex With Emily.
0:27.1	I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure
0:30.5	and liberate the conversation around sex.
0:33.9	So are you suddenly feeling a little kinkier?
0:36.3	Well according to my guest social psychologist and Kinsey Institute researcher Justin
0:40.3	Laymiller, a lot of us are ready to experiment right now.
0:43.9	Justin shares fascinating sex research
0:46.4	from the COVID era.
0:47.7	The sex communication practices heterosexual individuals
0:50.9	can learn from the LGBTQ plus community and how to make casual sex better for
0:56.0	women.
0:57.0	Spoil alert emphasize her pleasure.
0:59.9	We also impact the Kinsey scale and why sexuality is so freaking fluid, why threesomes are such a popular
1:06.1	fantasy and what are porn preferences reveal and don't reveal about us.
1:11.1	Finally we talk about sex education as it's practiced in the Netherlands and give you some
1:15.2	incredibly useful tools for talking to your kids about sex because it's really
1:19.8	important. Please rate and review sex with Emily wherever you listen to the show, just do it right now.
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