Best Betrayal Trauma Help You Can Count On – Women’s Stories
Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Anne Blythe, M.Ed.
4.7 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 12 December 2023
⏱️ 15 minutes
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Summary
When you discover your husband has betrayed you with secret use of inappropriate online material or infidelity, it’s important to seek the best betrayal trauma resources.
If you’re experiencing betrayal trauma, we’d love to see you in a Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group Session TODAY.

Transcript: Betrayal Trauma Resources You Can Count On
Anne: We have a special episode today. Several women will share the betrayal trauma resources that help them the most. Check out our Group Session Schedule.
All right, ladies, take it away.
Victim #1: Finally Finding The Correct Betrayal Trauma Resource!
Betrayal Trauma Victim #1: For years, like we’d have fights and I would go to the internet to find out how I could be better so we could stop having fights.
And article after article was never right. I just knew. And finally one day I stumbled upon the BTR podcast. I’m thankful for the transcript. I like to read them, And I finally, knew that what I was reading was right and when I had a name for what was going on in my marriage, I could finally start to work to fix it and fixing it has not meant what I thought it would. BTR has saved my life.

The Impact Of Group Sessions
Betrayal Trauma Victim #2: I had been in therapy for years, and at least a year with Chuck and there were no breakthroughs or anything. It was the same cycle over and over and over again with no real solution. When I found BTR, I honestly was trying to find reasons in my head why the group wouldn’t be good for me because I knew it was going to change everything .
And it did, having BTR group during that time got me through and you know, I wouldn’t be growing the way that I am without BTR.
Betrayal Trauma Victim #3: I have been going through, not a good place for about three years. And this is the first time that I have had other people
share their stories where I felt so validated. I could totally relate. This isn’t just me. I’m not going crazy. I can stand my ground and create boundaries to keep myself safe, to keep my kids safe and have multiple daily options to check in, check out, share, not share, listen, the isolation that I felt before is starting to dissipate.

The Value Of Support & Growth With Betrayal Trauma Coaching
Betrayal Trauma Victim #4: I arrived at BTR in full blown trauma, never having known what he was doing for years and prior to we were married. And thank God that this is the place that I found. Because there was love and nurturing and education and coaches to walk with me and support me. And I will forever be grateful.
Betrayal Trauma Victim #5: I have been in therapy for 12 years, and only now have I felt I have the expert care and clarity I have been searching for for 12 years. You and this whole group, proactive, where before it was just wishy washy, psychobabbly hit or miss type of therapy. Like, this group is exactly what women need. And I cannot thank you enough.

Betrayal Trauma Victim #6: I didn’t ever think I would be in the position I’m in. I was with my ex fiancé for 20 years. And I had no idea that he was living a double life. I found BTR and scheduled an Individual Session with a BTR Coach, and I haven’t looked back. I have learned so much. Every day I hop on group. I see women that I am inspired by. Women who are ahead of me in the journey, and women who are following me on the journey, and we’re all on different journeys, but somehow the connection that we have and love that we share is real.
So thank you so much. I don’t know what I would have done without BTR for the last 12 months.
When It Comes To Betrayal Trauma Resources The BTR Coaches Are Wonderful
Betrayal Trauma Victim #7: There’s just no support for women, other than the groups available in the addiction realm. My therapist of many years never mentioned the word abuse. I was terrified. The post separation abuse was just heinous. As I got into BTR, I learned so much from the coaches. And since then, with the help of BTR, I am safe in my new place. I’m now starting to process it even more
Due to all the coaches love and support, they have allowed me to have such great strength, realizing I am worth it. I am enough. BTR is a lifesaver, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. You helped save my life, and I am now free and safe.
Betrayal Trauma Victim #8: I’ve been through this for over 30 years. And I’ve been in BTR for five months. My life has changed more in the last five months than all those years I went through. And I appreciate the individual sessions, group sessions, and all the coaches.
Everyone has something different. And all the shares help you understand other ways to do self care and stay safe. I really appreciate BTR. I can’t say enough about it. It’s changed my life.
Betrayal Trauma Resources That Work For YOU
Betrayal Trauma Victim #9: I really didn’t know what to think about my situation.
After almost 30 years being with my husband, . I didn’t know what to do. And I prayed and I did a Google search and I found the podcast bTR was literally an answer to prayer. and it literally changed my life. After a year, I feel so much more empowered and connected and validated. Everything just started to make sense. I have so much clarity.
I’m a completely different person than I was a year ago. I just love BTR group.
Betrayal Trauma Victim #10: The BTR Group Sessions are so helpful, connecting with other people going through this, and not feeling alone, and recognizing that there are lots of super capable, strong, determined, women experiencing abuse at different stages along the way.
And I found the group sessions to be really helpful and the podcast to like understand broader patterns . I’m really glad BTR exists.
Betrayal Trauma Victim #11: I feel like BTR groups have been an opportunity for me to create some routine in my life, like something I can do every single day.
Betrayal Trauma Resources Vetted By Women Who’ve Been Through It
It has just created structure and support in a life that is chaotic, unpredictable, and challenging. And I feel like I like meeting with all the coaches, because they have different perspectives. Each coach has a different vibe.
That’s really helpful. That’s been great. I’ve been doing this a couple months. I’m really happy. And I don’t think I’m going to stop anytime soon. It a really beautiful community of women who’ve been doing it for a long time. It’s really cool to see those connections and to be building them.
Betrayal Trauma Victim #12: BTR Groups and Individual Sessions. Have been an amazing space for me to find safety, encouragement, and support. BTR has helped me and continues to help me, as I’m still in this process to be reminded that I’m not crazy. I can check in with myself and my body.
I’m grateful to have this community, it’s been really important to help me recover.
Resources for Betrayal Trauma That Empower You
Betrayal Trauma Victim #13: I found BTR through the Instagram posts just realizing those posts are about me. They help me.
When I started attending Group Sessions, it was like finally having the place where everything in my life that didn’t make sense made sense, and I wasn’t alone. To be able to. Literally like put the voices from the group in my ears and hear that as things are happening in my life.
It’s just been life changing. It’s been a great support.
Betrayal Trauma Victim #14: betrayal Trauma Recovery has been life changing for me. I’ve been able to share my feelings.
I’ve been able to share my story. The coaches don’t tell me how to live or grow with my husband, but the coaches help me guide my own path. And actually, my counselor pissed me off one day. He said, “You know, women’s groups like to tell each other what to do, and that leads to divorce.”
And I was like, that’s not true. You guys definitely don’t lead us to make decisions that would cause anyone to choose divorce.
That’s a huge thing for me because I’ve heard other places or counselors do that. The fact that I’m able to hear other stories is amazing. I don’t feel alone.
A Betrayal Trauma Resource That Will Bring You Connection
I feel like the knowledge of what other women have gone through. I feel like that has taught me, because it doesn’t have to be the same scenario. It’s just knowing what they’ve done has allowed me to make my decisions. I look forward to it every time I’m on here.
It’s affordable. I definitely recommend BTR to everyone.
Betrayal Trauma Victim #15: BTR has been important for me through this journey. I can just succinctly say that it has saved my life. I would say just simply that. Without BTR, I wouldn’t be here probably.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, everyone. I wanted to share some exciting updates about what's been going on at betrayal trauma recovery and then get real with you about some challenges we're facing. |
| 0:08.7 | First, the good news. We've expanded our group sessions to better support women worldwide. I've always wanted to do this and I'm so excited we were able to make it happen. |
| 0:17.4 | We now have live sessions three times a week at 8 p.m. Sydney time. So for all you |
| 0:22.8 | women listening in Australia, thanks for your support. These same group sessions are 10 a.m. Central |
| 0:28.0 | European time. For North American listeners in my time, they're at 2 a.m., which is perfect for |
| 0:33.6 | when you have stressed-induced insomnia. For women in Hawaii and Alaska, 11 p.m. |
| 0:39.0 | And for women in Japan at 6 p.m. We have live group sessions every single day, multiple times a day. |
| 0:46.8 | And my goal is to keep expanding until there's never more than a two or three-hour gap between |
| 0:51.4 | sessions anywhere in the world. To see how many sessions are available |
| 0:55.6 | per day in your time zone, go to BTR.org slash group. We'd love to see you in a session today. |
| 1:04.1 | Now the challenges. Doing this podcast, I've always faced opposition. And lately, the pushback has |
| 1:10.0 | felt otherworldly. Here's what's |
| 1:12.9 | been going on. I'm assuming it's abusive men that are systematically reporting our posts on |
| 1:18.0 | Facebook and Instagram as spam. Many advocates have let me know that they try to link posts to our |
| 1:24.0 | website, and those links are being immediately removed by the meta bots. |
| 1:28.4 | When I first started years ago, I trademarked betrayal trauma recovery. |
| 1:33.1 | And even though we're the largest betrayal trauma community in the world with over 93,000 |
| 1:38.5 | followers on Facebook, when I Google the four words, betrayal recovery, Facebook, we don't appear on the first |
| 1:45.7 | page of Google's search results. That's crazy. The same thing is happening on Apple Podcasts, |
| 1:51.6 | where women aren't able to see it. It's not coming up in their algorithms. Here's just another |
| 1:56.8 | example. This week, 43 podcast audio files randomly disappeared. That's almost an entire year of my |
| 2:04.1 | podcast that suddenly disappeared. I could go on and on. But suffice it to say, every day I wake up and |
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