is going on beautiful people welcome to another episode of the narcissist code i'm your favorite

self-aware narcissist lee hammock and i use my platform to raise awareness for narcissists

the person out to disorder get more people into therapy and validate the victims and survivors

of said disorder um today's episode is going to be about going from friends to dating going from

friends to being in a relationship and just so happens to be that that person is a narcissist so

um of course this happens a lot and when i'm talking to people over zoom i'm doing my one-on-ones

i heard this so much y'all it all be a you be surprised how often i hear this right here

that we started off as friends first we were friends for a couple of years we were friends

for a few months first and then we transitioned to dating and right there i'm i i'm not saying

this is a red flag at all y'all i'm not saying to hate this is red flaggy don't date your friends

don't do this don't cross that boundary right there but this is what i am saying is that when you

are friends first you think you get to know people more but you see a different side of them

because here you go because you know narcissistic people tend to treat their friends and other people

better than they treat the people that they are actually in their relationship with

that's why it's different and a lot of times narcissistic people were before you become friends

they will show you who they are they'll say stuff they'll be sharing stuff before you become

before you start dating they'll show you exactly who they are they'll say it they'll show you

exactly how bad they are treating men and women they'll tell you exactly how much of a dog they

are or how much of a you know they'll tell you exactly how much of how bad they do people how

they treat people and with you think because you their friend they wouldn't do it to you a lot of

times they happens right there you're like oh this is my friend it's my man we will be our friends

before we saw a date and now they're treating me terribly.

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