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The Office of Rabbi Sacks

Being an Inspiring Parent: "No Need for High Walls" (4/13)

The Office of Rabbi Sacks

Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks

Religion & Spirituality

4.8601 Ratings

🗓️ 27 March 2017

⏱️ 5 minutes

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Summary

This is the fourth episode of the new podcast series from Rabbi Sacks on how to be an inspired (and inspiring) parent. Each short episode will focus on one of Rabbi Sacks' 13 principles of inspired parenting. In this episode, listen to Rabbi Sacks talk about how important it is to set the example for your children to follow. To watch a video version of this podcast, please visit rabbisacks.org/being-an-inspiring-parent/

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0:00.0

How to be an inspiring parrot, Rule 4.

0:16.0

Rule 4 takes off from a fascinating passage in the terror of the story of the spies in Parish

0:22.3

Shalachlach. You remember Moses sends the spies, he tells them to look at the land, and also

0:28.3

he tells them, My are im a she Yoshvim Baheimba. Look at the cities. What are they like that

0:33.9

they live in? Im bachamim or by Mama'amahim or Bimivtsarim.

0:38.3

Are they living in open, unwall cities or are they living in cities defended by high walls?

0:44.3

Now you know what happens?

0:45.3

Ten of the spies come back, completely demoralized.

0:49.3

They say the people are giants, we are grasshoppers.

0:51.3

The cities are surrounded by high walls. They are impregnable. The cities are strong, therefore they assume the people are giants, we are grasshoppers, the cities are surrounded by high walls, they

0:54.5

are impregnable, the cities are strong, therefore they assumed the people were strong.

1:00.1

And Rashi tells us that actually they completely misinterpreted what their eyes saw.

1:07.7

And this is what Rashi says.

1:10.0

If bachanim him yoshevim, siman is she chazakim him, she somchin al-gvuraatam.

1:17.6

If they live in un-walled cities, this is a sign that they are strong because they don't need to live behind high walls.

1:26.4

They are confident in their own strength

1:29.9

that they can defeat any enemy.

1:32.8

But if they live behind high walls,

1:37.7

if they live behind high walls,

1:40.4

this is a sign that they are weak.

1:48.0

So how did we ever get to the point? Well, we thought we had to hide our children behind high walls,

1:53.0

never letting them into contact with the wider culture,

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