Hi my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

What's your definition of masculinity in general now?

There is so much great about being in the masculine, right?

It's for me, it was sort of the embodiment of creation and confidence and speaking up and having a voice and not that that's not feminine too but

but but in a sort of loud and proud way right sort of owning my circumstances and not being afraid to show up.

You can do that from a feminine place, of course.

But there's a fierceness around being in that masculine energy which which is you know

Most of my contemporaries that are women some of which are on your wall

The key to the successes was being in that masculine, but I think the key to their successes was being in that masculine but I think the key to their greatest

successes will be merging that masculine with their feminine.

When you're in a marriage and the female is being masculine a majority of the time, is it possible for the man to be just as masculine or do

they have to kind of default into their feminine to be able to just function?

I think couples can dance between both so my husband can be very masculine and you

take care of business and you know runs like my house like runs on a full tight

ship because that man is so he knows he's got his he's

getting his contractors license like he is legit yeah he's amazing and then also like

legal he's a lawyer so he runs illegal he's gonna run shit you know then at the same time, he can move into the space of the feminine

and like let me nurture and take care of him

in that sort of feminine, softer, gentler place.

So I think that we, that learning the dance and learning what like these areas are

what it's great when I'm in my masculine and these areas are great when he's in

his feminine and and the and vice versa and and and that I don't think there's anything wrong with slipping in and out as long as you go in and out you don't just stay in these two headbudding places.

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