Babe, Let’s Talk About Our Sex Life

Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.3 • 6.8K Ratings

🗓️ 3 August 2022

⏱️ 23 minutes

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If you’ve never talked about your sex life with your partner before, there’s a good chance they’ll push back. Why? Because most of us go into fight or flight mode when talking about sex: it’s not normalized in our culture, we get defensive, we feel like we’re being criticized. But never fear – you can create a culture of sex communication in your relationship, one talk at a time. Be the change, is what I’m saying. On today’s hotline show, I take your calls about having a sex talk. Like: telling your wife you want her to massage your prostate. Or telling a partner you want your vanilla sex to be a little spicier. How to relax into oral and give your partner tips to make you scream, and how to tell your partner: “you know what? I need to be seduced a little before we jump into penetration.” If we can talk about sex like we talk about dinner, everyone wins! So take a listen to this episode, and see if your next sex talk isn’t a little bit easier. Show Notes: Embodied is The New Sexy: 5 Benefits of Living a Radically Embodied Life A+ Oral Sex for Vulvas Everybody Loves Oral Ask Emily: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex? Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	The other challenge about Royal Sax is that everyone's body is different.
0:06.8	Every single wallva is a different wallva and likes different things.
0:10.9	Like I learned through my masturbation that the upper left quadrant of my wallva, like
0:16.3	on the left side of my clitoris, is more sensitive than the right.
0:20.1	For you Abby, it might be right and not your left.
0:22.9	How fun we get to really get granular and figure out what feels good to us.
0:28.6	We're listening to Sex with Emily.
0:30.4	I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation
0:35.8	around sex.
0:37.8	If you've never talked about your sex life with your partner before, well, there's a good
0:40.7	chance they'll push back.
0:42.6	Why?
0:43.6	Well, because most of us go into fight or flight mode when talking about sex, it's just
0:48.0	not normalized in our culture.
0:50.2	We get defensive, we feel like we're being criticized, but never fear.
0:54.2	You can create a culture of sex communication in your relationship, one talk at a time.
0:59.7	Be the change is what I'm saying.
1:01.5	On today's hotline show, I take your calls about having a sex talk, like telling your
1:05.6	wife you want her to massage your prostate or telling a partner you want your vanilla
1:10.0	sex to be a little spicier, how to relax into oral and give your partner tips to give
1:14.5	you even more pleasure.
1:16.7	And how to tell your partner, you know what?
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