4.9 • 992 Ratings
🗓️ 17 May 2025
⏱️ 115 minutes
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In this episode, Avraham Fixsler shares the painful and powerful story of his daughter Alta, and the legal battle he and his wife fought to keep her alive. He opens up about the emotional toll, the courtroom setbacks, and the unwavering faith that guided them. This isn’t just a story about medical ethics - it’s about a father’s fight for his child’s dignity. Listen to understand what it means to hold onto your values when the world says to let go.
Trigger Warning: This episode has heavy conversations about child death.
Contact Avraham or donate to his sefer torah here: [email protected]
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0:00.0 | medically what did the doctors tell you. |
0:02.1 | Doctor said to me, listen, don't expect to have a baby. |
0:04.6 | We're going to save your wife because the baby is anyway the lost case from their point. |
0:08.7 | Alta Fixler was born eight weeks prematurely in Manchester, England, and suffered severe brain |
0:13.3 | damage at birth. |
0:14.3 | When we went into the hospital, the doctor said right away that you should just let it go. |
0:18.4 | No one would know about it. If I started to think maybe that's what Asham wants, that's the right thing to do. |
0:23.2 | The doctors say Alta has no conscious awareness and that her brain injury will inevitably |
0:27.6 | result in early death. |
0:29.0 | The doctor said she's really not going to survive. |
0:31.0 | But then month after month, she is surviving. |
0:33.4 | At what point did you finally realize, like, okay, maybe the doctors don't really know |
0:36.9 | what they're talking about? |
0:37.7 | My child was born. There's no chance of surviving. You survive a day, another day? Six months old now. |
0:43.4 | He said to me, you're right. She proved me wrong. But the question is, how? |
0:47.0 | At what point did you realize that you wouldn't ever win and be able to take her? |
0:52.0 | I never realized that. Royal Manchester Children's Hospital told Alta's parents their daughter to be taken off |
0:57.9 | life support and allowed to die. |
0:59.5 | When you feel that someone is taking the life of your child, in you standing there, |
1:04.2 | you cannot do anything. |
1:05.1 | There is no way to explain this feeling. |
1:09.5 | How far would you go to save your child? |
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