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Help Me Be Me

Audience Q&A: Painful Infatuation, Feeling Empty & Lost, Needing Instant Friends

Help Me Be Me

Cloud10

Health & Fitness

4.81.9K Ratings

🗓️ 3 March 2018

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

In this episode I answer three different audience questions. The first, how to stop obsessing about a person after a single date – and the other person doesn’t want you back. Second, how to deal with feeling empty and lost – like the shell of a person. Third, how to stop forcing instant closeness with new friends – including oversharing. This one’s for: “Hijacked with infatuation,” “Lost” and “Instant Besty.” The links I mention in this episode include: The book The Depression Cure: http://amzn.to/2F9PCPv The fish oil I take in DHA: http://amzn.to/2tecCvb and EPA: http://amzn.to/2oIX1iH The Lily Pad podcast episode: https://soundcloud.com/helpmebeme/episode-44-personal-priorities-pond-a-self-esteem-building-exercise And to make a donation or read the blog version of this podcast, head to YayWithMe.com xo! Sarah May B. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:03.0

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0:09.0

Join June Parker as she uncovers hidden objects and clues to solve her sister's death in a beautifully

0:14.4

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0:19.3

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0:29.0

Download June's Journey Now on your Android or iOS device or play on PC through Facebook games.

0:37.3

Hi, Peeps. Help Me be Me is underfunded and needs your help. If you enjoy listening to this or it helps you at all,

1:05.0

please visit Help Me Be Me.com and click donate or visit me on Patreon. Thanks. Hi friends it's Sarah May and this is an audience Q&A episode for three people.

1:09.9

One is about unwanted infatuation. One is about feeling empty and lost,

1:12.2

and then one is about needing to be instant best friends.

1:15.0

So I'm going to say this is for hijacked with infatuation, lost, and instant Bestie.

1:24.0

So the first question, I'm just gonna, I'm gonna kind of quickly go through it.

1:30.0

I'm paraphrasing slightly.

1:32.0

The first one is about a person who went on a date. The date was really good and then the dude was not into her after that and said like, hey look, let's not date again.

1:44.2

That was fun though.

1:45.4

And now she's kind of stuck on him and can't stop internet stocking him.

1:51.0

I'm disappointed in myself because I feel weak after only one date not being able to get him off my mind.

1:56.6

I'm stuck on him. Is it because I feel rejected and I want to redeem my pride?

2:01.3

I don't know why I care so much. I feel like this is unreasonable because

2:07.9

it was only one date, but my brain is acting like we had a relationship. How do I get over

2:12.3

him and stop obsessing over him?

2:15.0

Okay, well infatuation is usually something we get over an impossibility like it's the distance or the lack of control that creates the extreme want.

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