Attention ALL Parents! Part 2 - Navigating the "Family System," the Role of "Presence and Radiance" and You Really Are Trying Your Best!

The Virtual Couch

Tony Overbay LMFT

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

5 • 643 Ratings

🗓️ 19 October 2022

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Part 2 Tony discusses the challenges of modern-day parenting youth who have grown up with technology at their fingertips from birth. He reads a question from a disheartened mother of adult children who asks when the child needs to take ownership of their feelings, emotions, and actions and when will they stop blaming their parents? Tony discusses the family system and how mothers often fill the role of "scapegoat" for their children to avoid accountability. He talks about "masculine and feminine energy," aka "presence and radiance," and the need to "hold the frame" for expressive children. He continues to work on The Nurtured Heart Approach and his 4 Pillars of a Connected Conversation in parenting. If you have parenting questions you would like answered on an upcoming episode; please email them to Tony using the contact form on his website http://tonyoverbay.com (http://tonyoverbay.com/) If you are interested in being coached in Tony's upcoming "Magnetic Marriage Podcast," please email him (https://publish.blubrry.com/s-505600/episodes/e-89726073/edit/[email protected])for more information. You will receive free marriage coaching and remain anonymous when the episode airs. Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop (http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop)to sign up for Tony's "Magnetize Your Marriage" virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you'll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. You can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com (http://pathbackrecovery.com/) And visit http://tonyoverbay.com (http://tonyoverbay.com/) and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts.Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the "uh's" and "um's" that, in his words, "must be created by wizards and magic!" because it's that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ (https://descript.com/?lmref=bSWcEQ)

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0:00.0	Hey, oh, oh, oh, come on and take a seat on the virtual couch. Hey, everybody, welcome to episode 343 of the virtual couch. I am your host, Tony Overbay. I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified and mindful habit coach, writer, speaker, husband, father, and four. And creator of the path back, an online pornography recovery program that is helping people reclaim their lives from turning to things like pornography
0:38.3	as an unhealthy coping mechanism. So if you want more information, go to pathbackrecovery.com.
0:43.7	And just getting all the business done up top, you can continue to go to tonyoverbay.com
0:48.6	slash workshop. And I have a $19.90 minute. What you never knew that you didn't know about marriage workshop,
0:56.0	that then sets the stage for my magnetic marriage course. And that is perfect segue into,
1:00.8	if you are a couple who would enjoy being coached, therapists, I don't think that's a real
1:06.0	with me, then send an email to info at tonyoverbay.com because we are getting closer and closer to the launch
1:13.7	of the magnetic marriage podcast which will be a subscription-based podcast well well less than the cost
1:19.5	of one therapy session with me and i've got a lot of those episodes recorded and it is powerful
1:25.0	and amazing and beautiful and dynamic and real people, anonymous people
1:29.9	that are coming together for the first time with me and I am coaching them. I am using the four
1:35.1	pillars of a connected conversation and using connected conversation scripts and we're talking
1:39.3	about invalidation and we're talking about external validation and we're talking about do you want
1:44.1	love or control and adult relationship because you can't have both and are you being confusing
1:48.6	with the signals that you're giving and how do we communicate and it is so exciting so if you
1:54.0	want to know more about that just go sign up at my on my website for my newsletter and or you can
2:00.2	email me at contact at tonyoverbay.com
2:02.2	and again if you want to participate send an email to info at tonyoverbay.com we've got
2:07.4	quite a few people that are interested in participating but we will take more because i think
2:12.1	this is going to be a thing for a long time because it is so exciting to talk to couples that
2:17.1	probably a lot of them haven't
2:18.5	been to counseling or coaching. And I know that a lot of people are going to listen are going to
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