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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Attachment Emails

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.2K Ratings

🗓️ 4 October 2021

⏱️ 113 minutes

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0:00.0

Hey, Deserve and Listeners, it's just me today. I thought I would answer a bunch of interesting

0:04.9

emails about attachment. The first email is from Aperture Patron Heather from New England. She says,

0:12.2

Could you talk a bit about reactive attachment disorder? My cousin is 18 and adopted

0:18.5

and is diagnosed with reactive attachment disorder. Her behavior and emotional struggles are

0:24.4

many and severe. Will this condition ever be able to be controlled and of email? Okay,

0:31.0

so let's look into a reactive attachment disorder. And I thought I'd also go into

0:35.8

its companion disorder in the DSM-5 disinhibited social engagement disorder as well.

0:42.3

So let me just talk about those. And if you want more detail on this, listen to my attachment

0:47.9

deep dive, which is available at patrons only. Okay, DSM-5, reaction, reactive attachment disorder,

0:55.7

basically someone with some one diagnosed with reactive attachment disorder would probably

1:02.8

also be observed to be disorganized attachment if you're familiar. Could be extreme avoidant,

1:08.8

but usually disorganized. Reactive attachment disorder, the symptoms are failure to seek comfort.

1:16.8

They avoid eye contact. You know, these are children. So that the child will just never reach out

1:23.7

to caregivers. They don't have a lot of eye contact. Frozen watchfulness is described,

1:30.8

meaning that they seem like they're remaining very still, but they're hypervigilant at the same

1:38.8

time. They will have unpredictable reunion responses, meaning that when the child is reunited with

1:45.6

their caregivers, the behavior from the child will be unpredictable. In that, the child will sometimes

1:53.6

celebrate the reunion, sometimes be terrified, sometimes ignore. But essentially, the DSM-5 doesn't

2:02.0

really describe reactive attachment disorder very well. So let me describe it in its essence.

2:09.4

These children, for very logical reasons of abuse and neglect, are terrified of caregivers

2:18.4

and avoid attachments. They don't trust caregivers and they seem, they can seem completely detached.

2:25.8

And often it's a result of massive attachment disruption that can occur during adoption.

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