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Ask Unladylike: Sexual Harm in Your Social Circle

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Feminism, Gender, Media Analysis, Body Politics, Patriarchy, Intersectionality, Society & Culture, Cultural Commentary, Beauty Standards, Internet Culture, Womens Rights

4.83.7K Ratings

🗓️ 8 March 2022

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

Returning guest and restorative justice expert Dr. Alissa Ackerman helps us advise a listener whose BFF's boyfriend is accused of sexual assault as well as a listener whose friends turned on her when she came forward about being assaulted. Plus, what's the best way to respond to sexual harassment deniers?

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Transcript

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0:00.0

There's something so romantic about winter and I don't know whether that's just because

0:05.4

I'm a bit of a homebody and I love a 5th.

0:08.0

But I think it's just the holiday period, it's just for me, it's the most romantic period.

0:14.2

And I think anyone who's listened to my records will know that I'm quite a big fan of romance.

0:18.8

Joy in every zip with red carp's now back at Starbucks.

0:26.2

Between forgetting the sellotape, trying to squeeze 8 people around a 6-seater table and

0:30.7

the cat taking down the tree.

0:32.3

Again!

0:34.3

Christmas can be tricky.

0:36.7

At least with Royal Mail, sending parcels is easy.

0:39.9

You can save time and money when you buy your postage online and we'll collect from

0:43.2

your door for £0.

0:44.8

Whether you have 1, 2 or 20 to send, just click, save and we'll collect.

0:50.0

Visit RoyalMail.com forward slash send.

0:53.3

Simple, offer ends 31st of December for details online.

0:56.7

Hey, I'm ladies, a quick heads up to this episode features mentions of sexual violence.

1:01.3

So if you'd prefer to skip it, please do.

1:04.2

Take care of yourself.

1:06.3

If we want to end sexual harm, we have to be willing to call people in.

1:15.0

We have to be willing to talk about the harmful impacts of their behaviour.

1:22.3

But if we cancel people, if we just say, I want nothing to do with you, I don't stand

1:25.9

for this, they actually don't ever learn.

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