4.4 • 717 Ratings
🗓️ 23 March 2015
⏱️ 16 minutes
🧾️ Download transcript
Research shows that when kids avoid risky or scary situations (and thereby never get to see that they can do what they’re afraid to do and understand fear as a “manageable emotion”), they can actually become more anxious as a result.
What can you do if letting the kids wander to their hearts’ content isn’t a realistic option for your neighborhood – or nerves? How can you offer them the opportunity to feel like they get to cut loose, experiment, walk the edge – and do it without the “lame” parental hand-holding?
(This Mark's Daily Apple article was written by Mark Sisson, and is narrated by Brock Armstrong)
Click on a timestamp to play from that location
0:00.0 | The following Mark's Daily Apple article was written by Marksissons and is narrated by |
0:11.0 | Brock Armstrong. |
0:14.2 | Are we thwarting children's instinct to explore? |
0:19.1 | Needless to say, this topic made for fun water cooler talk this week. We somehow |
0:25.1 | never tired of sharing our exploits from those years. Many exploits our parents to this day don't |
0:31.1 | know about. Maybe we never want to give up owning those stories. They involved most of us running |
0:36.9 | outside the second breakfast was done |
0:39.1 | and only coming home during the warmer days for lunch, dinner, and band-aids. We rode dirt bikes |
0:46.1 | at insane speeds over narrow route line paths, all without helmets, climbed trees higher than we'd |
0:52.9 | ever admit to our mothers, and got ourselves regularly |
0:56.1 | soaked in muddy creek water. Bee stings were a rite of passage, as were eating insects on a |
1:02.4 | dare, getting your first stitches, and instigating the occasional skirmish over certain kid |
1:08.4 | principles. By today's standards, I'd venture we'd all be considered |
1:13.2 | ruffians. Beyond what used to be the typical rough and tumble antics of childhood, however, |
1:19.9 | some stories revealed more compelling dimensions of youthful curiosity. Two brothers would mill |
1:26.0 | around the congregants of a local church that they didn't attend on Sundays |
1:30.3 | and make their way to the back door, where they regularly hid rocks or sticks in the door jam, |
1:36.3 | and then returned to explore after everyone had gone home. |
1:40.3 | They would walk quietly through the rooms, visiting the empty auditorium, kitchen, |
1:46.4 | gym, and sanctuary. There was never any shortage of curiosities to examine in the after-hours darkness |
1:53.2 | where they wouldn't disturb anything, but observe, wonder, and bask in the ever-present risk of being |
2:00.2 | caught. Along a similar vein, another neighborhood set of children would every summer day for years |
... |
Please login to see the full transcript.
Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Mark Sisson & Morgan Zanotti, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.
Generated transcripts are the property of Mark Sisson & Morgan Zanotti and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.
Copyright © Tapesearch 2025.