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2 Be Better

Are We Still Compatible or Just Comfortable Healing Marriage After Poly, Betrayal & ADHD To Be Better Podcast S4 Ep4

2 Be Better

Chris Burkett

Society & Culture, Mental Health, Self-improvement, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Education

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 26 January 2026

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

Part 3  In this episode of the To Be Better Podcast, Chris and Peaches sit down fresh off an intense couples retreat to unpack what really happens when you stop pretending everything is fine and actually do the work. They debrief the weekend, talk about the energy shift created by Peaches’ first guided meditation and sound bath, and share behind-the-scenes details from their women’s and men’s retreats, upcoming couples retreats, and the early stages of building their church and refuge for abused and struggling men and women. If you’re into real marriage talk, couples retreats, guided meditations, chakras, psilocybin, spiritual growth, and practical relationship tools, this episode gives you a raw look at how they blend masculine leadership, feminine softness, nervous system regulation, and deep emotional processing to actually create change, not just talk about it. 


The heart of the episode is a powerful Patreon email series from a husband who went from cheating and poorly managed polyamory to radical accountability, therapy, ADHD awareness, and the hard question, “Are we still compatible as healthy people, or are we just together out of habit?” Chris and Peaches walk through infidelity, open relationships, trauma-bonding, rebuilding trust after betrayal, neurodivergent “spicy brains,” communication breakdowns, resentment, and what it actually looks like for both partners to earn each other again. If you’re wrestling with whether to stay or leave, healing from cheating, navigating poly-to-monogamy, questioning compatibility, or trying to understand ADHD and emotional dysregulation in your marriage, this conversation will hit home and give you straight, no-fluff relationship advice you can start using today.

Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

And look how far we've come, all the things we've done, did it all with love,

0:09.3

beauty from the bottom of, all I want is you, you're my favorite view, but there's nothing more.

0:20.4

Girl, you made my heart more and we are back

0:24.2

Welcome back Bumbly bitches

0:25.8

Season 4 episode 4 of the To Be Better podcast

0:29.5

Good numbers

0:30.3

It is 4 4

0:31.1

We are fresh back from a couple's retreat

0:34.1

Every one of these retreats that we do is so very different than the previous one.

0:40.4

Yes.

0:40.9

And none of them have taxed me the way that this one did.

0:45.3

Yeah, this was a lot.

0:46.5

I am still not recovered from this weekend.

0:48.6

Me too.

0:49.5

Definitely taking a path after this.

0:51.2

But yo, that drive home was exactly what I needed. Really? Yeah, man. I have a psilocybin audiobook that I've been trying to listen to for months. And like, I'll put it on and I'll get like 10 or 15 minutes into it. I'm like, nope, next. And I'll go to a different book. And I haven't been able to actually get into the book. And I don't know if it was

1:11.5

because I was tired last night or what my deal was. But when you went back into the back of the van to lay down to do your call, Carrie was quiet. And I put my fucking thing in and I played it. And like, it kept me awake. And after like 20 minutes, I was really engaged. And I listened to that bitch the whole way home last night.

1:25.9

Hell yeah.

1:26.4

And I got almost done with the book.

1:28.0

So like, but I recharged because I was able to just turn my brain and I listened to that bitch the whole way home last night. Hell yeah. And I got almost done with the book.

1:33.6

So like, but I recharged because I was able to just turn my brain off and process stuff.

1:36.8

So we learned a lot this weekend.

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