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My question is, I recently had a parent-in-law passed away, and I was informed and told that all the siblings had to come together to pay for the funeral. And while it was very sad what

happened, they did leave property behind in vehicles, several properties as a matter of fact.

And so is it okay that I feel like this is not my obligation? Is there something wrong with that, with feeling that way?

You can feel however you want to feel. Feelings are cool. That doesn't make them true.

Okay. And it won't have, it may have zero bearing on what actually happens. But yeah, feel however you want to feel.

Okay. I just, I'm being made to feel like I'm a bad person because I don't want to

help pay for a funeral that I know there's money there and it's, I guess it's just the principle

of being told that I, you know, that we have to pay for the funeral. Who's making you feel bad?

Your spouse or the in-law siblings?

My spouse.

Do you all have the money?

We do.

Okay.

I want to know what John's going to say, but I want to know two things before he says it.

Number one, how much?

It's just, I was just under $3,000 per sibling, like per sibling family. Okay. There's eight of them. There's eight brothers and sisters.

Yes. So 24,000 for this funeral is what we're looking at? Correct. Okay. Then the other part, and John's going to say what he's going to say.

The other part, if I were in your shoes, this is the situation I'm thinking.

If I had, and I don't know what your relationship was with the in-laws cents. And I'm finding out that our cut of the thing is 3,000, which that's not the case,

but I'm just saying.

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