Hi, I'm Otto. Welcome to Erensaris-Pudkost.

Okay, today's a very good episode. We have Elizabeth Earnshaw, she goes by Liz, she's a couple therapist,

she's also the author of Till Stress Do Us Part, and I want this to work. This is a very helpful conversation for us both.

I think that a good couple's therapist can change your life, can change your relationship,

a bad one can mess everything up.

She is, but this is not just for only couples that have been

together for a long time. This is really sort of, we discuss all of it. We talk,

yeah, if you're single, you need this episode.

It applies to just...

How stress impacts your relationships,

how to talk to each other,

how to know if your partner isn't doing the work?

How to know if someone's your person.

We really cover so many things.

She's fantastic.

Yeah, she's a great episode.

Also just so people know, I accidentally had a baby in the middle of the episode.

So we recorded an hour with her and then she had to go and then we reschedule for the next day,

but then I went into labor. so then we had to do a

little pause and so you know it was more puffy the first hour less puffy this

the last 40 minutes because I gave birth in between. And just so you guys know, I was fighting for us to continue. I was like,

Aaron, the baby's not coming for the next few hours. Like, you're just, you know, just because your water broke doesn't mean you can't finish the pod. So it was set up. We were ready to go. I thought that she could handle it, but you know, she couldn't.

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