I'm in too soft now. I'm in too soft.

One eight five five virtue. So as I was e-stroping on a conversation when I was in Toronto

a couple of weeks ago, there was a table of about five women all in their mid 20s about

your age, Abby. All kind of similarly complaining about dudes being too soft now, right? That

they can't make decisions, you know, they end up on a date where do you want to go? Where

do you want to go? No, where do you want to go? No, where do you want to go? Guys are too sensitive

now to insecure. One said something about not taking charge at all and all of them, we sort

of got in this conversation when we were in Dallas also. All of them agreed that and maybe

it's just because they're all very similar because they're all friends. They were all like

sort of complaining about guys just being a little bit too soft now. So I'm curious for women,

it was this in anomaly of a group that I was e-stroping on or as a general rule, do mid 20s

that are dating or even your 30s and your dating now, do you just kind of feel like dudes are

just soft now? One eight five five virtue. Well, that's how a lot of my friends feel and it's

hard to not feel that way when you're on, for example, a dating app like hinge and you're

kind of really just asking for the bare minimum of, hey, can you just make the first move and get

the conversation started? And I was actually, you know, kind of going back through my hinge when

I was looking for voice prompts for our segment on hinge to like roast them on the internet.

But and I was looking through all these guys that I matched with and as a principal, I will

match with them back, but I don't make the first move. And there's all these, you know, normal

great guys who can't even send me a first message because maybe they're afraid of rejection or

maybe they're just lazy. And I think we, that's something that you notice online, but then you

also start to notice patterns like that in real life too. Like I have friends who have been dating

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