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🗓️ 10 May 2021
⏱️ 93 minutes
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0:00.0 | Hey, deserving listeners. I thought I would answer patron emails today. This first email is from |
0:05.2 | M. from Maryland. They write, I've been watching your series on 90-day fiancé and your brief |
0:11.6 | discussion on colonial ideologies with Lisa and Usman has left me wondering about the ethics of |
0:18.1 | countering potentially harmful ideologies and clients. Part of me recognizes that attempting to |
0:23.7 | address such ideologies with clients could damage the therapeutic alliance and that people might |
0:29.4 | interpret this as an attempt of the therapist to force a certain political perspective onto their |
0:34.1 | clients. Another part of me feels that not only could silence be interpreted by the client |
0:39.9 | as an endorsement, but also that failing to name prejudiced ideologies and their sources could |
0:45.6 | ultimately withhold from the client critical insight as to the source of their emotions in certain |
0:51.5 | situations. My question is when and how do you ethically address client behaviors that perpetuate |
0:57.2 | systems of oppression? As a future potential non-binary therapist of color, I do also feel I |
1:04.5 | have a personal stake in exploring these questions should a client have a prejudiced attitude |
1:09.6 | toward my identities and of email. Yeah, M. in Maryland, extremely intelligent email and very |
1:17.8 | well discussed here and what I will say in brief is that this is a tough question and there are |
1:25.2 | many considerations and you are describing the tension between the two sides very eloquently. |
1:31.4 | On one hand, we don't want to push our political views on our clients. On the other hand, we need to |
1:37.6 | stand up for the oppressed and do what is right, do what is moral, and we need to try to help |
1:43.6 | change our society one person at a time. So what do we do? Do we refrain from saying what was on |
1:51.9 | our mind and do we refrain from trying to, you know, because essentially what we're trying to do is |
1:56.8 | say, hey, you have a racist or you have an oppressive or you have a colonial ideology and as |
2:03.9 | you're a therapist, I'm recommending that you change it. Now, you should probably have a justification |
2:10.7 | like with Lisa Newsman, for example, on 90 day fiance, the reality TV show that I was reacting to. |
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