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Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Annie & The Manipulative Deaf Narcissist Redux - Domestic Violence, Narcissist Abuse, Emotional Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Society & Culture, True Crime, Self-improvement, Relationships, Education

4.7 • 791 Ratings

🗓️ 21 November 2022

⏱️ 76 minutes

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Summary

Annie fell head over heels in love with a 'regular' guy. But this man was anything but regular. Very quickly, Annie became subservient to his needs, as her ex-partner masterfully used competition, his hearing impairment, and triangulation as his main tactics to manipulate her. It's a story of weaponizing disabilities, being chosen, guilt, obligation, sowing the seeds of doubt, minimization, justification, shame, expectations, blame shifting, gaslighting, control, sexual abuse, trauma, dehumanization, and much more. ***Trigger Warning - We mention Sexual Abuse in this episode*** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.  Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0

On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Annie,

0:06.5

and Annie was in a toxic relationship with a triangulating deaf abuser.

0:11.4

It's a story of weaponizing disabilities, being chosen, guilt, obligation,

0:18.4

sowing the seeds of doubt, and dehumanization.

0:42.9

Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.

0:50.6

I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Annie.

0:52.1

Thank you for being here today.

0:53.6

Thank you.

1:14.9

And if you want to be a guest on our show, like Annie is today, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form. When you click on that button, it takes you to our guest form page. Please read all the instructions and then either send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press a submit button and please send it in the form that we ask for and we're always looking for more episodes so please do send in your stories.

1:23.2

I think I said that you were always looking for more episodes but I meant you were always looking

1:26.3

for more stories. So please do send in your stories.

1:30.4

And today's episode is actually an old episode that I, that always stuck with me.

1:36.8

It's from year one of doing the show.

1:39.8

It was from September of 2019 with Annie.

1:43.3

And this episode always stuck with me. And I don't know if people

1:45.6

have gone back to listen to it. So I really wanted people to hear it. And it's really an insidious

1:53.7

story as far as taking advantage of someone using your disability to take advantage of that person.

2:02.8

Annie had gone through a lot. And what we pretty much are dealing with here when it comes to

2:09.4

Annie's abuser, if you're looking at Lundy Bancroft's types of abuser, this person's

2:16.7

pretty much like a combination between the player and the water torture

2:21.2

with a little bit of the, maybe the demand man or Mr. Wright, like just tiny

2:26.6

sprinkles of that.

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