AMA: Healing Attachment Wounds, Codependency & Happy Wife Happy Life - Jayson & Ellen - 433
Relationship Coaching School Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.6 • 981 Ratings
🗓️ 7 February 2023
⏱️ 39 minutes
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Summary
Curtis asks, “In your expertise, do you perceive that attachment wounds and attachment styles are healed and transformed during partnership or outside of that? I’m curious to hear your thoughts because I’ve been doing a bit of research and finding different takes on it…”
Another listener wonders if these phrases signal a lack of personal responsibility in a codependent relationship: “‘I can only feel okay when she (or he) is feeling okay,’ ‘I feel I need to make her (or him) happy,’ and ‘Happy wife, happy life’; how would an attachment framework view codependency?”.
Ellen and Jayson address how we can heal our attachment wounds/adapt our attachment styles, highlight how we impact one another, and discuss the importance of finding common ground to propel the relationship forward. Stay tuned to the end for your action steps.
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| 0:00.0 | a secure partnership. It's sensitive to both people. The partners are mutually invested in the relationship. |
| 0:05.3 | They share power, they co-create, collaborate around everything. The whole relationship is built on what the two people decide it should be. Hey Jason Gatis here. Welcome to the Relationship School |
| 0:36.0 | podcast. This show focuses on human behavior, psychology, and |
| 0:39.3 | relationships. It's for people who are into growth and development. It's for |
| 0:42.3 | people who wrestle with the paradox of self-acceptance and self-mastery. |
| 0:47.0 | If you want to gain more self-awareness, have a better relationship with yourself, |
| 0:50.0 | and more fulfilling relationships with others, this show is for you. |
| 0:54.0 | It's my belief and my experience that your life satisfaction, your health and well-being, and your |
| 0:58.7 | longevity will be determined by how much confidence you have in your most important relationships, including the one with yourself. |
| 1:06.0 | Welcome back, Ellen. |
| 1:08.0 | Thank you for having me again. |
| 1:10.0 | Yeah. |
| 1:11.0 | We were just admiring my tech skills. |
| 1:14.0 | Is that pretty sexy? |
| 1:15.0 | Yeah, you're very amazing on the tech, honey. |
| 1:20.0 | Yeah. |
| 1:21.0 | It looks really hard actually from over here and I appreciate you dealing with it. |
| 1:25.0 | Yeah, I'm actually not that tech savvy. I'm not an audio file nerd. |
| 1:30.0 | I am just a dude. But you're good at figuring it out. I'm okay. I had to get a whole new mic |
| 1:38.7 | set up in the last a while. It's just been a pain in the butt. You have more patience than I do for that. Yeah. I would start crying. I like |
| 1:46.6 | computers and phones and techie stuff. Yeah. But I don't like how it runs my life. |
| 1:52.3 | Your life is completely dependent. But I don't like how it runs my life. |
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