Am I as bad as it sounds like I am? How to accept love even at the lower levels of health in our enneagram type. | Wednesday Q&A

Enneagram & Coffee

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🗓️ 25 May 2022

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Today I am answering the question: "I recently saw a post on Instagram about how the enneagram types manipulate others. Type 4s apparently manipulate "By being temperamental - and making others walk on eggshells." This scraped my heart to shreds since my pain point as a type 4 is that I believe I'm impossible to love due to my temperamental nature that makes people find me too volatile. How do I reconcile this paradox? How do I address the shame this brings up because it's validation of my worst fears? " -- THANK YOU TO THIS WEEK’S PODCAST SPONSOR BetterHelp is customized online therapy that offers video, phone and even live chat sessions with your therapist, so you don’t have to see anyone on camera if you don’t want to. It’s much more affordable than in-person therapy and you can be matched with a therapist in under 48 hours. Enneagram & Coffee listeners get 10% off their first month at BetterHelp.com/EGRAM — Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my book at www.thehonestenneagram.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Grab a copy of know your parenting personality https://amzn.to/37Zbh0l Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:15.0	I am Sarah Jane Case, and this is Anya Graham and Coffee.
0:23.9	Hello friends, happy Wednesday. I hope your day is treating you well.
0:28.1	Today, I am answering one of your questions texted into the podcast phone line
0:32.8	about how to be loved even in the lowest parts of our type.
0:36.7	But first, today's Rosebud and Thorn. My rose today is we had a mystical storm this morning.
0:43.2	It was about two minutes of intense winds and hail.
0:46.9	It was wild and magical and made me feel alive.
0:50.7	We also had a text message warning that it was coming, and we were able to google what was
0:54.6	happening, but it's crazy to think about how it would feel if we didn't have that technology.
1:00.0	Like, what would we think was happening? I think I would think it was a tornado,
1:05.2	but then by the time I got even to the basement for safety, it would be over.
1:10.1	But it was wild. Really fun. The thorn is, I had a doctor's appointment today,
1:16.8	and honestly, I was pretty optimistic about it, and it just didn't go the way that I hoped.
1:22.4	I just still don't have any answers about what's going on with me, and it's pretty frustrating.
1:29.2	We're going to try some stuff, but ultimately, we just don't know what's happening, so we're just
1:34.4	going to experiment on my body. My bud is I am teaching a workshop at my co-working space tomorrow,
1:42.2	and I'm really looking forward to seeing who comes, and hopefully meeting some of you can't wait.
1:48.8	All right, let's get into today's question. First, thank you so much for your valuable,
1:54.1	joyful, and important work. Thank you. My question is, I recently saw a post on Instagram
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