AITA For EXPECTING My Sister To Pay Me Back For Her Wedding...5 YEARS LATER | Reading Reddit
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🗓️ 20 March 2026
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OP asks the question AITA when she helped pay a large part of her sisters wedding and is now asking for payment back 5 years later.
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00:21 Story 1 u/Fearless_Artist8558
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| 0:00.0 | Hey Waffle Gang, I do hope you are well. My name is Mark and today we're checking out some more Reddit stories. |
| 0:08.5 | And if you do love a Reddit story, why not consider? |
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| 0:14.1 | Let's crack on with today's first story. Much love, guys. |
| 0:19.3 | Now today's first story was a suggestion over on our own |
| 0:23.0 | subreddit from Edwig Flies Again, so thank you so much for that. And it's originally from |
| 0:27.4 | the Am I the Asshole? Would I Be the Asshole Public Subreddit? And it says, Am I the Asshole for |
| 0:33.0 | expecting my sister to finally pay me back for her wedding. Five years later. I 32 female |
| 0:41.3 | am still so frustrated over this and honestly I need some outside perspective. Five years ago, |
| 0:48.3 | my sister, 30 female, got married and was struggling financially at the time. I stepped in to |
| 0:53.7 | help and ended up covering |
| 0:55.0 | a big chunk of a wedding cost. Venue deposit, catering and decorations. We agree she'd pay me back |
| 1:01.6 | once she got on her feet and I trusted her. But every time I brought it up over the years, |
| 1:06.8 | she'd brush it off with things like, don't worry about it, or you were such a big help, |
| 1:11.2 | just think of it as my gift from you. I didn't want to start family drama, so I let it slide, |
| 1:17.1 | but it's always bothered me. Fast forward to last week, she calls asking if I can help her with a |
| 1:23.3 | down payment for a new house. The amount she needs, pretty much the same as what she still owes me. |
| 1:29.5 | I told her I'd be willing to help, but only after she pays me back for the wedding first. |
| 1:34.6 | She got defensive immediately, saying it's been so long, and not I'm being unfair for holding it |
| 1:40.2 | over her head. She insists she thought I had just gifted her the money. Now she's not speaking |
| 1:45.7 | to me and even my parents are trying to convince me to just let it go for the sake of peace. |
| 1:51.1 | But it feels like she's been taken advantage of my kindness for years. I'm tired of pretending |
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