Agreeing to disagree is not the end result

WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

Danielle LaPorte

Self-improvement, Education

4.9 • 697 Ratings

🗓️ 18 July 2022

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

There’s tolerance. And it’s obviously better than intolerance. But there’s often some kind of settling beneath it. And then we move up the spiral to Acceptance. A definite improvement but… Let’s really expand to the highest destination if possible: HONOUR.

We honor our contrasts and our mutual freewill. It’s a huge stretch when we’re frustrated with other people’s choices. We don’t have to condone, but we can respect the most basic commonality that we all have: CHOICE.

Tune in for a mind stretch!

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0:00.0	Hello, friends. It's with love, Danielle.
0:06.9	Today I want to talk about agreeing to disagree and three levels of loving awareness,
0:15.6	this progression that really gets us to a truly inclusive love. So the term will just have to agree to disagree.
0:24.9	It's never really sat well with me because I think the term itself is really saying,
0:30.8	this isn't really sitting well with me, but I'm going to act like it is. I have this seething
0:36.3	resentment that I'm going to carry around in my pocket,
0:38.9	but we'll just act like we're still bros about this. And so in most circumstances,
0:46.1	you know, for me, it just really came with an inner eye roll and no real resolution. And I really, I hunger for that resolution. I know it's not always possible.
1:03.1	Well, let me think about that. Is real resolution always possible? Yes, it is always there.
1:09.9	The possibility for divine love to be exchanged is
1:16.8	eternal. It's always there. Do we always get to it? Hell no. Have I gotten to it in my kitchen,
1:22.7	having arguments with the people I love the most, maybe not always.
1:29.5	So agree to disagree.
1:38.0	Let's talk about the progression that gets us to resting in love, which I think is what we're all craving.
1:39.3	I think the first degree of loving awareness is tolerance. It's for the sake of morality, I'm going to put up with you.
1:52.0	It's, I want to be known as having some ethics, so I'm going to make some space for this.
1:58.1	It's, I have no choice, so I may as well not push against this. It's feigned harmony,
2:07.5	which is better than explicit disharmony. Tolerance is definitely the lesser of two evils,
2:16.0	but who wants to choose any evil at all? Tolerance can sometimes
2:20.7	be this ego jih Tjitsu where you want to look like a good person, you want to be socially
2:31.0	acceptable, you want to look nice, so you put up and you shut up.
2:37.7	Tolerance can be a political move.
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