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🗓️ 25 December 2017
⏱️ 68 minutes
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0:00.0 | This is a funny thing around this resentment is I I never loan money. I'll give gifts. |
0:07.7 | If somebody asks for money They never have to pay well. Hey you guys have to pay you back but I just I just say don't worry about it look that's it because if someone owes you money and they can't pay you back you lost a friend because they'll start avoiding you. Oh interesting. So if like I |
0:29.2 | lend you 50 bucks right and you every time we meet you forget it now you start resenting me yeah |
0:36.2 | because you feel bad yeah and you don't want to point the finger at yourself for |
0:40.3 | neglecting to bring the money you want to point the finger at me for for like somehow, somehow always asking for it. |
0:47.0 | Somehow I'm the bully. |
0:48.0 | Or I set you up to fail. |
0:52.8 | Right. |
0:53.8 | But if I just give it to you, then you don't owe me anything. |
0:58.6 | Yeah, it's true. |
0:59.7 | And then hopefully they pay you back anyway when they can. But they're not they don't feel obligated to and |
1:05.2 | so they don't feel like they have to have bad feelings. They don't have bad feelings towards you. |
1:08.9 | You write it off as a sunken cost. Yeah. And that's the only way to keep your friend. Yeah. Speaking of |
1:16.4 | sunken costs or not sunken costs. Sunken places. Sunken places. Sunken |
1:20.6 | places. Sunken places. happy places, gifts. |
1:24.1 | Tis the season, am I right, Gabe? |
1:26.8 | Tis the seasons. |
1:27.8 | We got Kwanza, we got Hanukkah, we got Christmas, Solstice. |
1:31.6 | What else we got? |
1:33.0 | Some non-denominational stuff, whatever. |
1:36.0 | And I apologize in advance to all the people I've left out and all the rituals and traditions |
1:40.0 | that I'm just not aware of, but you're valuable and we accept you, unconditionally, we love |
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