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ποΈ 24 February 2021
β±οΈ 36 minutes
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"Are you going to do this? Ever?" Standing at the edge of the highest diving board at the aquatic center, a young Adam Grant tries and tries, and tries to leap off. But he can't face down his fear β not so much of falling as losing control. So there he stands at the end of the board, paralyzed. In this story, Adam Grant, now a famed organizational psychologist, shares how a wise diving coach helped him outsmart fear β and take the leap.
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0:00.0 | Hey there, it's Rohan. Have you ever felt stuck? Like you'd really like to make a change in your career |
0:05.8 | or your personal life, but you just couldn't move. Most of us feel stuck at one point or another. |
0:11.6 | And here's the interesting part. We actually already have the ability to get on stuck. |
0:16.4 | So why don't we do it? Our coaching partner better up, suggest that because we fear change, |
0:22.4 | we talk ourselves out of it. Maybe even overthink or overcomplicate the steps we need to take |
0:28.0 | to keep ourselves from taking action. Our internal antibodies to change, that is to say fear, |
0:33.7 | takes over. As a quick reminder, we're collaborating with Better Up by using meditative story |
0:39.3 | and the episode themes to coach you through challenges like getting stuck. If you're feeling stuck, |
0:45.0 | Better Up can help because here's what their coaches know. We like to think of ourselves as |
0:49.9 | rational beings, but what really motivates us is positively charged emotions that act as feedback |
0:56.3 | loops when we need to act. After today's meditative story, I'll share a brief exercise from Better Up |
1:02.6 | to kickstart the change you'd like to make in your life. |
1:16.0 | My focus practice, hour after hour, day after day gives me a sense of clarity and purpose. |
1:22.4 | I'm trying to learn a front one and a half. So a flip and a dive, but I'm afraid to keep rotating |
1:31.2 | past the flip. I'm not sure what I think is going to happen, but I'm so terrified that I only do |
1:37.2 | a front one and a quarter and just belly flop. Try after try the whole summer. I feel like I'm |
1:45.5 | hanging on a little bit longer each time, but the tapes show me I'm not. I think I'm learning |
1:52.8 | to let go of control, but I'm still gripping it just as tightly. I think I'm confronting my fear, |
2:01.7 | but I'm actually powerless against it. |
2:04.6 | Adam Grant is a professor of Organizational Psychology at Wharton, a treasured Ted Speaker, |
2:16.5 | and the multiple New York Times bestselling author. In his newest book, Think Again, |
2:23.2 | Adam weaves together research and storytelling to help us take curious enough about the world |
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