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The Science of Happiness

A New Relationship with Stress

The Science of Happiness

PRX and Greater Good Science Center

Science, Social Sciences

4.41.9K Ratings

🗓️ 13 April 2023

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

Is there such a thing as good stress? Our guest learns to welcome her stress by understanding how it can actually help her, plus tips and tricks to not feel too much of it.


Episode summary:

Like many of us, our guest Yana Leventon has dealt with a fair amount of stress in her life. But after living through the COVID-19 pandemic and grappling with the ongoing war in Ukraine (with relatives on both sides of the border) Yana’s stress levels reached a new high. This week’s episode is all about how we can reframe our relationship with stress. Yana spent one week trying a new practice each day. All 7 of the practices were aimed at managing different aspects of stress, from physically metabolizing her stress through exercise to visualization and breathing techniques. These exercises helped her regain a sense of clarity about what is truly not in her control, and agency over what is. She began to see stress as a normal and necessary part of life that can actually be beneficial in the right amount. Later, we hear from the psychologist who developed this stress management tool, Elissa Epel. She discusses the importance of developing a positive relationship with stress, and how we can use stress to feel a sense of empowerment.

Practice:

Day 1. Embrace Uncertainty: Releasing Embodied Stress

Day 2. Let Go of What You Can’t Control: Stress Inventory

Day 3. Find Excitement in Challenges: Stress Shield

Day 4. Metabolize Body Stress: Hormetic Stress

Day 5. Immerse Yourself in Nature: Sensory Absorption

Day 6. Experience Deep Rest: Breath for Restoration

Day 7. Create Bliss Bookends: Start and End Full of Joy

For more information on each of the daily practices, check out Elissa Epel’s book, The Stress Prescription.


Today’s guests:

Yana Leventon was a refugee in Austria and Italy before migrating to the United States from the former USSR when she was 10 years old.

Elissa Epel is a psychologist who specializes in stress, aging and well-being. She has developed self-care practices rooted in scientific research to improve how we cope with stress.

Learn more about Elisa and her work: https://www.elissaepel.com/

Read Elissa’s book, The Stress Prescription: https://tinyurl.com/yt66t3b3

Follow Elissa on Twitter: https://twitter.com/Dr_Epel

Follow Elissa on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TelomereEffect


Resources from The Greater Good Science Center:

How to Transform Stress into Courage and Connection: https://tinyurl.com/n49fzhf7

Seven Ways to Have a Healthier Relationship With Stress: https://tinyurl.com/mr3yy6b5

Is Stress Making You Withdraw from People? https://tinyurl.com/4kkesr7s

Could Stress Help You Find Your Purpose in Life? https://tinyurl.com/2ssz7mck

The Surprising Benefits of Stress: https://tinyurl.com/3uynfkf2


More Resources on Managing Stress:

National Institute for Mental Health - I’m So Stressed Out! Fact Sheet: https://tinyurl.com/4hr3eawc

TED - How to make stress your friend: https://tinyurl.com/y5bsj3ks

Harvard Business Review - Turning Stress into an Asset: https://tinyurl.com/3fdzfx3v

Johns Hopkins - Sleepless Nights? Try Stress Relief Techniques: https://tinyurl.com/mw6jxbvz


Do you struggle with managing your stress levels? What’s your go-to stress management tool? Email us at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.

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Leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts and share this link with someone who might like the show: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap

Transcript

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0:00.0

I think from early on, I was anxious of how my family is going to make it or survive.

0:12.0

I was almost 10 when we left Ukraine.

0:16.0

It took a year to get to the United States. We had to go to Austria and Italy and live there as refugees.

0:22.0

And then watching my parents struggle, I think this heavy sense of responsibility just made for a very anxious life.

0:30.0

I've had a series of events happen back to back.

0:34.0

Our house burned down in Sonoma, in the wildfires.

0:38.0

My son went off to college. You know, when COVID started, it felt like everything was literally being taken away from me.

0:47.0

And that was very scary.

0:50.0

Coming out of COVID and going into the war was an absolutely shocking experience.

0:57.0

The Ukrainians and the Russians were, you know, allies. They were on the same side fighting the same enemy.

1:01.0

And here we are fighting each other.

1:03.0

And I have relatives on both sides of the border.

1:06.0

And that created a lot of stress.

1:11.0

Not being able to sleep through the night, waking up very early with just spiraling thoughts, going down the rabbit hole.

1:19.0

The stresses that came or your back is against the wall.

1:26.0

I used to think of myself as a resilient person and something happened.

1:41.0

I'm Dacker Keltner. Welcome to the Science of Happiness.

1:44.0

Stress is something we've all experienced and will never be totally free of it.

1:48.0

But sometimes it can get to be too much.

1:50.0

This week we're going to explore a new way to look at stress.

1:54.0

And seven things we can do to help us reduce and manage it.

1:58.0

Yana Levinton has had her own series of stressors throughout her life.

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