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Well, I hope everybody has been having a good week so far.

Thanks again for catching another episode of Kate and Ty, break it down.

You know, we like to break things down with you guys.

In today's episode, I feel like we have a lot of fan questions that I've gotten.

And also... Any juicy ones? Huh? Any juicy ones?

I mean, they vary, you know, like I, I didn't do like the, uh, anonymous secrets anonymous.

Oh, yeah. Okay, okay. I, you know, I just kind of ask people to ask us questions. Um, I think that's

always fun. Tyler and I also have planned. We need to make this happen. People really want to see an episode with Nova. All right. I'll do it. I will. I think it's smart. Yeah. And I think Nova would love to be a part of it. You know, we might have to record that like a nighttime episode when the other two were sleeping yeah I guess they're in school yeah true true you know yeah

she'd probably love it though because she's always like can I hang out with you guys oh gosh yes can I come in your bed

she would love it and so Nova this is Nova's third week technically third week of school and yesterday

she was like struggling she was just like talking about how she was stressed out and but i think it's and i told her i said listen this is normal for a middle schooler yeah and then think about it and also the fact that she's in middle school in fifth grade i was still at elementary school i was going on the playground still you want to think about it and you still only had like one teacher you might switch every now and then right yeah you know, she's in the, she's in the middle school. She's in it. And so I told her yesterday when she was texting me at lunch. She's like, I'm just stressed out. She's like, and then I went to the counselor's office. And I'm like, what was so wrong? What's wrong? Like, why are you upset? Because she was like, I was crying. And she she goes I'm just stressed out about school she's like and

caddy really got to me yesterday oh she thought about caddy and I was thinking about it like

she took caddy's death so well I felt like she didn't take the time to like really feel her feelings

and so now it's hitting her all of a sudden yeah um but I told her her, I said, you know, grief does, it comes in waves.

Yep.

You know, and you have to just treat it like a, like a passing by train. You're just going to like view it, look at it, feel it, feel it, experience the wind that it's pushing and just, you know what I mean? Let it go. Yeah. Yeah. And then I also, and so I tried to explain to her yesterday. I was like, you know, like, school is important. Yeah, your grades. They're important. I was like, but just remember like school is just school. Do your best. Try the best that you can. If you have questions, ask and ask and ask. Keep asking until it makes sense, you know, like, don't stress out so much about it to where it's causing you. Maybe she's like getting more like conscious of just wanting to get A's and, you know what I mean? Amy, this is the first year where she does that too. Yeah, and this is the first. I mean, I never. No, me neither. I didn't give a shit. That was bad. I was like, listen, as long as I get a C, I'm good. See, and I was kind of like, I'm just here to see my friends. Yeah. Listen, as long as I got a see i'm good see and i was kind of like i'm just here to see my

friends yeah listen as long i got a sea and i'm passing whatever yeah and that's kind of i mean we did tell her that too because she was like well what is the grade that like you know what it would be like considered bad and i mean you both said like anything under a sea that's bad i mean like And like, you know, a C is good.

It's, it's, it's the bare minimum of passing.

Right.

You know what I mean?

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