When you listen to lies, it causes a lot of pain.

I ended up in a two-year relationship with a guy who had convinced me that he would change.

And his past was he had done drugs, and I told him from the very first day I met him, I was not going to tolerate that.

And so for two years, I believed that he was going to change. And I'm not

saying that I still don't believe people can change. But behind my back, he was still smoking pot.

He was still doing those things. And that ended up hurting me in the long run because I believed

his lies. And I don't know, I've always been a fixer, I guess.

I guess I felt like I was his accountability because he was with me, he wasn't going to do those

bad things.

But even though he was with me, he was doing it by my back.

So I guess I felt like I was fixing the situation by staying there and I wasn't at all.

This is Revive Our Hearts with Nancy Lee DeMoss.

It's Monday, April 28th.

I have to have a boyfriend.

This idea has led many young women into some bad choices,

and it's just one of the topics covered in a new book by Nancy Lee DeMoss and Dan O'Gresh.

Nancy interviews a lot of authors on Revive Our Hearts,

but today the tables are turned a little bit. We invited Bob Lapine,

the co-host of the radio program Family Life Today, to talk with Nancy and Dana about this important book.

One of the lies that you've addressed in your book, Lies Young Woman Believe, are a series of lies that girls believe about guys.

Imagine that.

Yeah.

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