Elizabeth called in to talk all about how BDSM, torture and a lesbian dominatrix all led her to self-acceptance. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she decided to write her award winning memoir Exodai about her journey of self acceptance, when she knew she was a lesbian and how and why she was so uncomfortable with it, how denying her sexuality led her to toxic relationships, when she realizes she was into BDSM, her first experience at a BDSM party in Tokyo with female dominatrix and what went down, how and why that was such a powerful experience, the next couple of relationships she had with a couple other dominatrix and why those relationships ended, how and when she realized that S&M and the pain she was experiencing was coming from her inability to love herself, the last dominatrix she dated who was really toxic, how they met and what went down in their dom/sub relationship and how and why it went downhill, how a past life regression helped her leave her and eventually accept herself and her sexuality, how and when she eventually met her current partner and why she doesn’t engage in BDSM anymore plus a whole lot more lot more. Link to book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJDKPZMT  **To see pics of ELIZABETH plus see anonymous pics of most of my female guests + gain access to my PRIVATE Discord channel where people get super XX naughty + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [email protected] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://butterwellness.com/ Get 30% off your order from The Perineum Massager by Butter Wellness. Go to butterwellness.com and use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 30% off your entire order.  https://beducate.me/anonymous60 Get BEDucated! For 60% off PLUS a FREE 24 hour trial, click the link and use code: anonymous60 https://bluechew.com/ Get 15% OFF Blewchew plus first month FREE use code STRICTLYANON http://www.shamelesscare.com/strictly You can get one year supply of Doxypep for just $109 https://www.dipseastories.com/strictlyanon Hear the hottest stories on Dipsea! 30 day FREE TRIAL https://viiahemp.com/ Have great sleep AND great sex with VIIA Hemp Gummies used code: STRICTLYANON for 15% off Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices