Cat called in to discuss her journey into non-monogamy and kink, running kink clubs and starting the Kink Collective. Tune in the hear all the details including how and why after she got sober she discovered her sexuality and got into kink, the first guy she met who became her mentor and got her into going to kink/bdsm parties and what she did and didn’t like about those parties, how and why that relationship need and how she wound up in NYC in the kink world, how and where she eventually found her tribe that she felt most comfortable with, the next guy she met and how she started helping him run his swimmer club with him, how and why that ruined their dom/sub relationship and how they decided to get their bdsm needs met elsewhere, how and why that relationship ended, how and why she started running a club on her own and how and why she brought bdsm into it, how she met her current partner and started running clubs with him, their poly relationship and how and why that works for them, how the Kink Collective stated as a leather family and how it evolved over time into a place that helps people enter into the kink and bdsm community plus a whole lot more. You can find the Kink Collective here: https://kinkcollective.net **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [email protected] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices