89: How to Get a Raise at Your Dream Job | Feedback Friday
The Jordan Harbinger Show
Jordan Harbinger
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🗓️ 30 August 2018
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter every week and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday!
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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:- You need to increase your salary so you can adequately provide for your family, but you're not sure your current employer will go for it. Is it time to let go of your dream job?
- How can you ease the overwhelming loneliness of being on your own for the first time when you're anxious and miss your old life -- especially when the job that moved you to the big city just isn't as interesting as it used to be?
- Can a man from a blue collar background and a woman who grew up used to the finer things in life build a life together that allows him to feel like a provider without disappointing her expectations?
- When you're the youngest in a family business that isn't doing so well, how can you tell the other partners -- who once were your mentors and idols -- to level up their mindset and work ethics or else everything will crash and burn? Or is it just time for the family business to crash and burn?
- What should you do about this habit you have of talking over people?
- How can you promote yourself without, in weatherman parlance, sending the eye-rolling barometers into the storm zone?
- How can you learn to have a fluid conversation with people when you're constantly feeling less than?
- Recommendation of the Week: Zion
- Quick shoutouts to Simon from Montreal and Timm!
- Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
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- Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Feedback Friday. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger. I'm here with producer Jason |
| 0:05.0 | to Philipo. Here on the Jordan Harbinger show, we love having conversations with our fascinating |
| 0:09.6 | guests. And this week we had General Michael Hayden talking about trust essentially and |
| 0:15.8 | the intelligence community. I know that sounds a little vague and nebulous here, but I thought |
| 0:19.9 | that was an interesting one, Jason. He kind of dove into how trust is at the core of |
| 0:24.8 | functioning democracies and functioning corporations. I think there was a lot there. It might |
| 0:29.8 | have seemed a little political, but I enjoyed that one. I totally enjoyed that one. And I've |
| 0:34.7 | said for the record that I don't agree with what he did when he was in office, but I love |
| 0:38.4 | having a discourse with somebody I don't agree with. So I think that's what makes his grow |
| 0:42.3 | as people. So for me, it was a fascinating show and I learned a lot. And we had Charles |
| 0:47.1 | Rue, part two. He escaped from North Korea. Twice a co-host of that one with my friend |
| 0:51.8 | Gabe Mizrahi, who traveled with me to North Korea a few times. I think each of us had been |
| 0:56.6 | there for he might have been there five times now because he kept doing trips there and |
| 1:01.1 | guiding people on trips there after I had already stopped going. So super interesting |
| 1:06.3 | story of a guy who's 24 looking forward to a great life, but had just a insane, almost |
| 1:15.3 | science fiction. Or I guess lack of science really when you're talking about North Korea. |
| 1:19.7 | There's no, no science going on in North Korea. Right. No, lack of science fiction past, |
| 1:24.8 | it's really incredible story of a harrowing story of escape and just an insane life that |
| 1:30.5 | note kid deserves to go through. So if you missed those, go check those out in the |
| 1:34.9 | feed this past week here and let us know what you think. Of course, our primary mission |
| 1:39.7 | on the show here is to pass along our guests and our experiences and insights along to you. |
| 1:44.8 | So in other words, the real purpose of the Jordan Harbinger show is to have conversations |
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