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How to Be Awesome at Your Job

874: The Five Questions that Build the Best Possible Relationships with Michael Bungay Stanier

How to Be Awesome at Your Job

How to be Awesome at Your Job

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4.51.1K Ratings

🗓️ 15 June 2023

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Michael Bungay Stanier reveals the simple secret to forging better relationships at work and in life. 


— YOU’LL LEARN — 

1) The key factor that builds and ruins relationships. 

2) The way to mend damaged relationships. 

3) The simple question that helps maintain your relationships. 


Subscribe or visit AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep874 for clickable versions of the links below. 


— ABOUT MICHAEL — 

Michael Bungay Stanier helps people know they’re awesome and they’re doing great. He’s best known for The Coaching Habit, the best-selling coaching book of the century and already recognized as a classic. His new book, How to Work with (Almost) Anyone, does what it says on the label. Michael was a Rhodes scholar and dabbles in the ukulele. He’s Australian, and lives in Toronto, Canada. 

• Book: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships (website

• Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever 

• Website: MBS.works 


— RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — 

• Book: Managing Up: How to Move up, Win at Work, and Succeed with Any Type of Boss by Mary Abbajay 

• Book: An Immense World: How Animal Senses Reveal the Hidden Realms Around Us by Ed Young 

• Book: A Short History of Nearly Everything by Bill Bryson 

• Book: An Imaginary Life by David Malouf 

• Past episode: 275: How to Manage Your Manager with Mary Abbajay 

• Past episode: 279: How to Feel More Alive at Work with Dan Cable 

• Past episode: 707: Amy Edmondson on How to Build Thriving Teams with Psychological Safety 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the How to Be Awesome at Your Job Podcast.

0:04.0

The show where brilliant professionals share how to sharpen the universal skills required to flourish at work.

0:10.0

Enjoy more career fun, wins, meaning, and money with your host, Pete McHydus.

0:19.0

Hello and welcome to episode 874 with Michael Bungaiste and here.

0:23.0

We brought Michael back a fourth time because he has so much fantastic wisdom.

0:29.0

Fun fact four times is the record shared by Brian A. Hurn.

0:33.0

So there's that.

0:35.0

And once again, Michael has got some fantastic questions that he's thought through in depth.

0:40.0

He has battled tested them.

0:42.0

He's refined them and we just get the goods at the end of all of that process of discovery.

0:47.0

These five questions help you build the best possible relationship, which Michael emphasizes is not the best relationship, but the best possible relationship.

0:56.0

And there's a difference.

0:57.0

And within that, there is hope.

0:59.0

So you'll learn a bunch of stuff, including one, the key factor that builds and ruins relationships.

1:04.0

Two, the way to mend damaged relationships.

1:06.0

And three, the simple question that helps maintain your relationships.

1:10.0

So if you want to check out the show notes or the transcript or the links to bits that we've mentioned here, please.

1:15.0

Place a visit over at awesome at your job.com slash ep874.

1:20.0

And while you're at awesome at your job, I recommend you check out some cool stuff like the gold nuggets.

1:25.0

That gives you summary with some written up in an email you can read in about two or three minutes from Michael.

1:32.0

And each episode as the guests go live as well as opening up the archive of the vault of all of the historical ones.

1:38.0

874 now and counting because those the gold nuggets at awesome at your job.com.

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