Welcome to Ghost of a Podcast. I'm your host Jessica Lignato. I'm an astrologer, psychic

medium, and animal communicator, and I'm going to give you your weekly horoscope and no

bullshit, mystical advice for living your very best life.

There are four times as many empty homes in Oakland, California as there are people without

homes. Moms for housing is a collective of homeless and marginally-housed mothers. No

one should be homeless when homes are sitting empty. Housing is a human right. Moms for

housing is uniting mothers, neighbors, and friends to reclaim housing for the Oakland

community from the big banks and real estate speculators. To learn more or to donate to

this cause, visit moms4housing.org. That's moms number 4 housing dot org or send a text

to 510-800-7810 to get updates.

Friends with Benefits wrote in to ask me this question, she says, I'm 43 and currently in a

casual relationship with someone who's 30. It started as a friends with benefits kind

of thing, but my feelings have grown considerably. He's always been honest with me about his

desire to not have a serious relationship right now, which I'm trying to respect, but

I don't normally do casual. I'm trying my best to stay present and enjoy what we have

in the moment, yet I also want to stay true to myself and protect my heart. Based on my

birth chart, will it ever be possible for me to have casual relationships? Friends with

Benefits was born on October 6, 1976 at 3.50am in Brooklyn, New York. So this question

is really an important one. And I'm going to answer it. Slash also, friends with benefits,

you've asked me the wrong question. Yeah, I know you wanted to ask me the question you

wanted to ask me, but you've asked the wrong question. And this is in part why I've chosen

your question, because when we ask the wrong question of ourselves, of our lives, of

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