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Shameless Leadership

863: Julie and Ryan Neale: Mother & Son Neurodiversity Advocacy on College Campus

Shameless Leadership

Sara Dean

Education, Management, How To, Business, Self-improvement

4.7 • 800 Ratings

🗓️ 8 April 2024

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Julie Neale is a life and leadership coach, mom to two neurodivergent boys, and creator of Mother’s Quest, the Mother’s Quest Podcast, and the Live Your EPIC Year Planner. Started in 2016, Mother’s Quest provides inspiration, coaching, and community for mothers who want to live their version of an E.P.I.C. life while raising their children. At the age of 50, Julie received a diagnosis of ADHD, realizing that she is also neurodivergent. The diagnosis explained a lot and has provided a window for her to understand better what it’s like for her children to embrace their differences while finding strategies to address the challenges. This year, Julie is serving on the UCLA Parents' Council. She looks forward to working alongside her son Ryan, from a parent perspective, to support neurodivergent students and their families at UCLA. Ryan Neale is a neurodivergent sophomore at UCLA, planning to double major in Communication and Disability Studies with a minor in Film Studies. He is part of the College Scholars Program at UCLA and recently was selected as part of the 2023 Chancellor's Leadership Program cohort. He is passionate about neurodiversity advocacy and sharing his own experiences to pave the way for others. He is currently a staff member at the Bruin Resource Center, where he is a student lead on a new campus-wide neurodiversity initiative to make UCLA more inclusive for students like him. This summer, he served on staff for the Stanford Neurodiversity Project - Research, Education, and Advocacy Camp for high schoolers wanting to create neurodiversity advocacy projects. He was also a speaker at the 2021 Stanford Neurodiversity Summit and has been a guest host on the Mother’s Quest Podcast. Ryan was diagnosed with autism at the age of 18 months old and also identifies with ADHD and anxiety. April is Autism Awareness Month. April 2nd is Autism Awareness Day. I was so honored to have Ryan and Julie here to talk about neurodiversity, including autism, and all that Ryan is doing to build inclusive spaces for kids like him on college campuses.   Listen in to hear Ryan and Julie share: Ryan’s optimism around the neurodiversity movement, esp in collegiate environments Ryan’s autism diagnosis at 18 months and his experience of learning of his diagnosis at age 13 Ryan’s disconnection from his diagnosis given his propensity for rich connections How Julie was diagnosed with ADHD when going through menopause  The difference in the ways Ryan and Julie accepted and integrated their respective diagnoses What Ryan’s transition into college life has been like How Ryan has leaped into neurodivergence advocacy at UCLA Links mentioned: Connect with Julie: https://mothersquest.com Connect with Ryan: www.ryanjneale.com  Mother’s Quest on IG: www.instagram.com/mothersquestpod Ryan on IG: www.instagram.com/ryan.neale04 Ryan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryan-neale-031112176/ Autism Story Telling Project in San Fransisco: https://www.autismstorytellingproject.com/  Spark Course about Ryan’s college experience  Mother's Quest Podcasts with Ryan related to neurodiversity: https://mothersquest.com/ep-93-learning-outside-the-lines-in-college-with-neurodivergent-advocates-ryan-neale-jonathan-mooney/ https://mothersquest.com/embracing-neurodiversity-and-being-an-adult-with-julie-lythcott-haims-and-ryan-neale/ https://mothersquest.com/ep-18-yolo-you-only-live-once-and-other-milestone-reflections-with-ryan-neale/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

This is the Shameless Mom Academy episode 8663 with Julie and Ryan Neal.

0:06.0

Show notes for this episode, including any links mentioned in the episode, can be found by going

0:09.7

to shamelessmom.com and clicking on episode 863.

0:17.8

Welcome to the Shameless Mom Academy. I'm your host, Sarah Dean. I'm here to give you and other

0:23.4

passionate, driven, unapologetic moms, tools, resources, and a little bit of humor to help you

0:29.3

lead more positive, powerful, and purposeful lives every damn day. One of the best things about

0:34.8

the Shamedless Mom Academy is our community. So be sure to join us in our free private Facebook group to connect with other

0:40.7

shameless moms just like you.

0:42.5

You can find us over at shamelessom.com forward slash Facebook.

0:47.1

All right.

0:47.6

Let's dive into today's episode.

1:00.5

Julie Neal is a returning guest to the Shameless Mom Academy, and she is a life and leadership coach,

1:07.4

mom to two neurodivergent boys, and the creator of Mother's Quest, as well as the Mother's Quest podcast and the Live Your Epic Year Planner. Started in 2016, Mother's Quest provides inspiration,

1:13.8

coaching, and community for mothers who want to live their vision of an epic life while raising

1:18.0

their children. At the age of 50, Julie received a diagnosis of ADHD, realizing that she

1:23.5

herself is also neurodivergent. The diagnosis explained a lot and has provided a

1:27.8

window for her to better understand what it's like for her children to try to embrace their

1:31.8

differences while finding strategies to address the challenges that come alongside. This year,

1:36.9

Julie is serving on the UCLA Parents Council and looks forward to working alongside her son Ryan

1:42.6

from a parent perspective to support neurodivergent students and their families at UCLA.

1:48.0

Ryan Neal, Julie's son, is a neurodivergent sophomore at UCLA, planning to double major in communication and disability studies with a minor in film studies.

1:57.0

He is part of the College Scholars Program at UCLA and was recently selected as part of the

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