Yo, today's QODS, I can't wait around for other people to decide my life for me.

Here we go.

Welcome back to the quarter of the day show. I'm your host, Sean Crox and a

Sean Crox and calm. We got a brand new speaker on the show today. Her name is

Mina Shaw. And today, Mina is going to talk about the lies that we tell ourselves.

The lies that we believe in and how these lies impact our lives. Here's Mina.

Now, these, what I'm going to talk to you about today are the lies that cause

people to feel like they are in cages. Because in my work, what I have found is

that there's three types of lies. There is the societal lie. Now, the societal

lie is the unspoken conversation going on all around us all the time about who

you're supposed to be, what you're supposed to look like, and what you should

be striving for. It is the images and messages that you see in TV, in magazines,

and on social media. It's the lie that would have you believe that happiness

really is found on a yacht in Fort Lauderdale. Now, to be clear, for a percentage of

the population, that yacht is not a lie. It's their truth. Maybe they love

yachting. Maybe they love the ocean. Maybe they built companies and employed

hundreds of people. And that is a symbol of their accomplishment and their

contribution. For them, it's their truth. The societal lie is when you decide

that someone else's definition of success, whether it be money, career,

relationship status, should be yours also. Now, the second type of lie is the

familial lie. And the familial lie is the lies told to us by the people who are

closest to us that mean well. I remember I were there was a colleague of mine, a

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