Welcome to Ghost of a Podcast. I'm your host Jessica Lignato. I'm an astrologer, psychic

medium, and animal communicator, and I'm going to give you your weekly horoscope and no

bullshit, mystical advice for living your very best life.

I wrote a book. It's astrology for real relationships, understanding you, me, and how we all get along.

It is pretty awesome if I may say so myself, and I'm taking it on the road to you, New York.

That's right, I'm going to be in New York, February the 12th through the 18th, and I've

got a bunch of events scheduled, and I hope to see you there. Go to my website at lovelignato.com-slaosh-events,

and the link will be in show notes to see which event you want to come to. Also, Bay Area,

I got stuff planned for you this spring. Check out lovelignato.com-slaosh-events to learn

more.

Loveurs and haters, I have a fantastic question this week from someone named Loyalty, and she

says, I've been told by many people in my life that I can only see black or white, and

that my expectations of others are too high. Past lovers have said that I can be extremely

specific to intense and that I basically want to date myself. Personally, I find that I

lose myself, get overwhelmed, and even obsessive in romantic relationships. I expect a loyalty

and honesty that others just can't uphold. I didn't have the easiest childhood mentally,

and I've worked hard on myself growth for many years. For as long as I can remember,

all I've wanted was to be with my soulmate. As a universe of better place if I stay single,

and I meant to walk the earth mostly solo because of some karmic debt, thank you, Loyalty.

Loyalty was born May 28, 1988 at 7.53pm, and Cacacus, New Jersey, and I apologize to all

the Cacocchians if I've said this wrong because I feel pretty confident that I've said it wrong.

Okay, so there's a lot to unpack in this question, but Loyalty, let me tell you something straight

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