What's happening people? Welcome back to the show. My guest today is Dr Paul Eastwick. He's a psychologist, professor, and a researcher.

What do people actually want in a partner compared to what they say they want? Paul is the lead author on one of the largest studies of its kind,

which was just released, breaking down exactly this question.

Expect to learn the number one trait people actually look for in a partner how well people

know what they want what ideal partner preference matching is the biases that

affect mate evaluation the sex differences in stated versus revealed preferences, whether

big data could improve dating app matching, and much more.

A lot of uncomfortable insights today as our very publicly acceptable proclamations about what

we want, supposedly, and a partner are ripped away from our eyes and the harsh reality comes in to smash it in the face.

Really interesting, fascinating stuff. The study is massive and very impressive and

and Paul's great so I really hope that you enjoy this one.

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