Today's show is going to be about the difference between confidence versus arrogance, right?

I have a shirt made for the band podcast that says the difference between confidence and

arrogance is a fine line and I like to ride it. And that could not be more true. Think about this.

Confidence, you need as much confidence as you can when you walk into a building to negotiate

when you walk into a place to perform to be the number one draft pick or to compete on a

football team or a job interview or to ask somebody out confidence is sexy confidence

is swagger confidence builds credibility it allows you to be all you can be. And when you're not confident, you seem weak. How many times that some of you single folks out there, you'll see a hot chick. She's a 10, but she's super insecure. She's worried about her lips. She's worried about her ears. She's worried about her

boobs. She's worried about all this other stuff that doesn't matter. And all of a sudden, she goes from a 10 to a 7. And then you see this girl who's a 7, but she's like, I feel sexy. I love myself. I'm a wear a two piece. I don't care what anybody thinks. And you're like, damn, she's like a because she's confident.

Women think the same thing. I don't care what anybody thinks. And you're like, damn, she's like a nine because she's confident.

Women think the same thing of men, right?

You can have a man walk in.

I always go back to grownups where the guy's all buff and he walks up when the ladies

are there at the pool.

And he's like, hey, guys, how are you guys doing?

Like they start laughing.

I almost think of lack of confidence is like that.

When you come across as you look, you have the looks, but you don't have the confidence,

you lose the credibility.

And I think ladies know that too.

When they see men, they're like, dude, like that guy's insecure.

That guy's nervous.

That guy doesn't believe in himself that guy is you know has

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