823: Daniella Mestyanek Young | How to Disengage from a Lifelong Cult
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ποΈ 11 April 2023
β±οΈ 96 minutes
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Summary
Daniella Mestyanek Young (@daniellamyoung) is a survivor of the religious Children of God cult, a US Army combat veteran, an extremely advanced knitter, and the author of Uncultured: A Memoir.
What We Discuss with Daniella Mestyanek Young:- How the seemingly wholesome Children of God (later known by variations of "The Family") religious group centered around love, faith, and Jesus β and packaged to appeal to impressionable countercultural hippie types of the day β veered into true cult territory under the direction of its leader, David Berg.
- How female followers of Children of God were encouraged to use their bodies and sexuality to gain converts and money in a practice known as "flirty flashing."
- How child sexual abuse became a commonplace Children of God practice in an effort to raise "sexually liberated" children.
- What this cult and others do to cultivate credibility β and raise funds β among its followers and the outside world.
- The toll that life in a cult takes on those who are lucky enough to exit.
- And much more...
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| 0:13.5 | Coming up next on the Jordan Harbinger Show. |
| 0:16.3 | Cults become really popular in times of social confusion, |
| 0:20.0 | and when systems are coming down and people are looking for guidance. |
| 0:23.6 | And so globally, right, we saw it go 60s and 70s, |
| 0:27.5 | was America's time of cult, 80s was Asia, |
| 0:30.7 | and then 90s was Latin America. |
| 0:33.0 | And the children of God, the family, another creepy name, |
| 0:37.0 | they followed that trajectory just growing and growing in places that were friendly. |
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