792. Why You’re Still Stuck in Old Patterns: The 3 Beliefs Secretly Running Your Life

Almost 30

Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik

Alternative Health, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education

4.5 • 4K Ratings

🗓️ 28 August 2025

⏱️ 119 minutes

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In this episode, Krista sits down with spiritual teacher + author Aaron Abke to explore the sometimes messy journey of being human. Aaron shares the story of his spiritual awakening, including his dark night of the soul + the life-changing realization that set him on his path. Aaron + Krista discuss why many traditional approaches to manifestation + self-improvement fall short. Aaron also shares how true freedom begins with understanding your emotional guidance system + breaking free from ego-driven patterns of lack, attachment, and control. If you’ve ever found yourself chasing outcomes, struggling to receive, or feeling stuck despite all your spiritual work, this is for you. With the release of his new book, The Three Beliefs of Ego, Aaron reveals how your beliefs block your manifestations—and how to finally move past them. We also talk about: Why spiritual burnout is so real What sadness is trying to tell you How to actually surrender to God Manifestation hacks for the feminine Outgrowing relationships (friendships & dating) Why you can’t ever get rid of the ego Giving + receiving vs. taking + keeping Managing ego in dating + relationships Daily practices to train your mind for freedom Resources: Order his book → The Three Beliefs of Ego Follow on Instagram → @aaronabke Explore more on YouTube → Aaron Abke Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: http://bit.ly/Almost30Book. Sponsors: fatty15 | Get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. Cymbiotika | Go to Cymbiotika.com/Almost30 for 20% off + free shipping. Chime | Open your account in 2 minutes at chime.com/almost30. IQ Bar | Get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus get FREE shipping. Just text ALMOST to 64000 to get your discount. Ka’Chava | Go to https://kachava.com and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your next order. To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: almost30.com/about almost30.com/morningmicrodose almost30.com/book Join our community: facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups instagram.com/almost30podcast tiktok.com/@almost30podcast youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer. Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:56.6	stylist pulling pieces I didn't even know I needed.
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1:05.1	I actually just pressed the order button.
1:08.5	So excited.
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1:19.4	really beautiful same color. It's called the left bank layered shirt. You guys, this look is chic.
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