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Tea with Queen and J.

#77 Coat Switching

Tea with Queen and J.

Tea with Queen and J.

Society & Culture

4.9768 Ratings

🗓️ 1 November 2016

⏱️ 111 minutes

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Summary

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! Can you keep your favorites if they hate women? We discuss music & misogyny, macro & micro aggressions in higher education, male birth control, buying weave, and the dehumanization of the gold digger. Drink up! Tweet us while you listen! @teawithqj #teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter & Instagram: @TeawithQJ Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com NOTES & EXTRA TEA Pinkies up to TK (@TastyKeish) for engineering this episode at Bondfire Radio! Be sure to visit www.TastyKeish.net for more information on TK, and check out our fellow independent media friends at www.BondfireRadio.com Visit J.'s favorite renaissance man and partner in costume creation Ronie Reives on instagram @darrkstarr and his alter ego Viki Villainess @ihatevikivillainess We'd like to thank Tiffany Martinez for sharing her story of being targeted in academia. You can read "Academia, Love Me Back" here: https://vivatiffany.wordpress.com/2016/10/27/academia-love-me-back/ Please check out this incredibly detailed series of tweets by @DwayneDavidPaul for more information on Ramsey Orta and how you can support him and his family. #SupportRamsey twitter.com/dwaynedavidpaul/sta…/752200478918840320 You can make a donations via PayPal through the email address ortaramsey@gmail.com where Ramsey and (once incarcerated) his wife Bella, manage the account directly. J.'s sister is documenting her journey with breast cancer. Follow her on at jasmineses.tumblr.com and on twitter & instagram @jasmineses to offer words of support or to gain some of for your own journey. And if you'd like, please donate and/or share her go fund me page: www.gofundme.com/t6e5wew Check out www.capitalizetheB.com to join the movement and sign the petition for the AP Stylebook to capitalize the letter B when referring to individuals of African descent as Black. Petition: www.change.org/p/the-new-york-ti…m_medium=copylink Help insure that undocumented immigrants have access to clean water in Flint, Michigan through the Latino Collaborative: www.crowdrise.com/watercrisisinfli…inocollaborative We won't forget about Monique and Larissa. To learn more about the Free Monique and Larissa from Kuwait campaign click here: www.change.org/p/free-monique-an…risoned-in-kuwait Last year activists, protestors, and researchers across the nation launched Campaign Zero, a comprehensive plan to end police violence. Check out www.joincampaignzero.org to get more information on the plan and see where the 2016 presidential candidates and your local politicians stand. Pinkies up to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and online at www.ohenecornelius.com Pinkies up to T. Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.TFlintVoices.com

Transcript

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0:00.0

This week on Tea with Queen and Jay, can you keep your favorites if they hate women?

0:04.8

We talk about music and misogyny, macro and microaggressions in higher education,

0:09.8

male birth control, buying weave, and the demonization of the gold digger.

0:14.6

It's Tea with Queen and Jay people. Drink up.

0:16.6

Queen of Jay.

0:17.6

Tea with Queen of Jay.

0:20.0

Tea with Queen of Jay. T with Queen of Jay. Tee with Queen of Jay.

0:26.4

I said I was already.

0:31.6

What's up, yo?

0:32.6

Nothing.

0:33.1

How you doing?

0:33.9

I'm good.

0:35.0

Welcome to Tea with Queen of Jay.

0:37.2

I am Queen. I'm Jay. We're two womaness race nerds talking shit over tea. And this is Tea with Queen and Jay. Ow! I ain't do an hour in a minute. It's been a while. It's been a minute. Okay. All right. I'll take that owl. I have to continue my chicken head advocacy, so. It's important. It's important. I've discovered that I have a chicken head in the ranks, and it's not the kind that I like. Well, yeah, not all chicken heads are likable. They're not all created equal. No. Okay. At some point, we'll have to get through, like, the delineation between chicken heads, because I don't want to marginalize any group. I don't know. I think I have a bitch-ass nigger in the crew. I think that's what it is. Well, those are different from chicken heads. Yeah, maybe it's not a chicken head. When I say chicken heads and I advocate from chicken heads, it's like, think of the voice in 90 hip-hop songs. Right. I'm thinking of that. Right, right.

1:28.1

Not necessarily connected to any.

1:30.1

Yeah, now when chicken heads became this negative thing.

1:33.1

Right.

1:33.7

The other, you know, ow, am.

1:36.3

That voice of women in hip hop, that is the one I'm kind of like, chicken head.

1:41.9

Got it.

1:42.3

Not when we became like, chik, chook, bo, chick, chicken. Like, not that one. I actually, I actually like that song. No, I like that song. No, and the chicken heads in that song because the way he describes them. Isn't that the one who has weed in her purse, weave in her hair? Yeah, but he was like saying. That's me. He was saying that she was wrong for that, is what I'm saying. Before we were... Right, right.

1:44.2

It was a time in hip-hop, but it was like being that around the way girl was popping. True that. And then it became like. Even in his heteration, though, I took that song. See, because you were able to say, fuck you. And I owned it. Exactly. I was in college and I danced to that song. That was a good song. With the wig on. With the weed in my purse, it was everything. I'm for it. And that's why I advocate for chicken heads. Yeah. So if you guys want to follow the conversation about chickenhead advocacy and whatever other whole shit we're going to be

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