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Motherhood Meets Medicine

75. Combating Low Sex Desire After Having Children with Thea Jansky

Motherhood Meets Medicine

Lynzy Coughlin

Medicine, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness

51.1K Ratings

🗓️ 10 August 2022

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

Having the open conversation about sex and low libido can be really difficult. It’s a very personal, deep topic that many go through and don’t have a resource or an outlet to express their struggles or feel comfortable talking about it. As a mother and a wife, being intimate can be low on your list of priorities. Your sex drive with your partner may be low, or not as it use to be in the beginning of your relationship. If you are feeling this way, please know that it is extremely common among women. This episode is all about those topics as well as learning the whys, hows and what to do to change things up with your partner. Thea Jansky holds her Masters of Arts Degree in Integrative Health & Healing and was trained as a Sex & Relationship Coach out in Berkeley, CA. She is Certified in Codependency Recovery and trained in Conflict Management, Resolution, Mediation, Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Complex Trauma & the Nervous System. She lives in Connecticut with her husband and two daughters. In this episode we discuss: Why women struggle with low sexual desire, especially after having children. Why men love to feel needed in relationships. How to get back to the women you were prior to having children. Needing the space to miss each other. Finding intimacy in other ways to feel connected with your spouse. Resources: Get 50% off your first order of Hiya Vitamins: hiyahealth.com/Lynzy My Mother Myself by Nancy Friday Show notes: lynzyandco.com Connect with Thea Janksy: Visit Thea's Website. Check Out Her TikTok Thea’s LinkedIn Connect with Lynzy: Join the Motherhood Meets Medicine community at patreon.com/motherhoodmeetsmedicine Instagram: @motherhoodmeetsmedicine Sign up for the weekly newsletter here Disclaimer: This podcast does not provide medical advice. The information on this podcast is for informational purposes only. No material on this site is intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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1:06.8

Hello everyone. Today I am chatting with Taya Janski. Taya holds her master's of arts degree,

1:13.5

an integrated health and healing and was trained as a sex and relationship coach out in Berkeley,

1:19.0

California. She is certified in codependency recovery and trained in conflict management,

1:24.6

resolution, mediation, dialectical behavior therapy, and complex trauma, and the nervous system.

1:31.6

She currently lives in Connecticut with her husband and two daughters. In today's episode,

1:37.6

we talk about why some women struggle with a low desire for sex after kids and how we can combat

1:44.0

this mismatch in libido among partners. This episode has sexual content, obviously,

1:50.6

and I do not suggest this in this episode with kids around. Perhaps pour a cup of coffee,

1:55.8

or at night, glass of wine, and listen to an anase walk or sitting on your couch relaxing.

2:01.1

Let's dive in. Just a little disclaimer before we start this episode,

2:06.3

this podcast does not provide medical advice. The information on this podcast is for informational

2:11.7

purposes only. No material on this site is intended to be a substitute for professional medical

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