#72: Wasted Time in Relationships

breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex & More

Trina Leckie

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🗓️ 6 June 2018

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

After a breakup or divorce, it's almost inevitable that you're going to feel...at some point...like you wasted your time or that the person you were dating or married to wasted your time. That said, it can really drain you if you focus too much on that.

In this episode, I give you some other ways of looking at this, as well as tips for going forward in future relationships. (I don't want you driving yourself cray obsessing over this, if you know what I'm sayin...)

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Broken-hearted, feeling like the world is over, convinced you'll never meet anyone else.
0:10.0	Trina's breakup boost will help heal your heart and get you back in the dating saddle.
0:15.0	She'll give you straightforward opinions and advice for your love life.
0:20.0	Hi everyone, the topic of today's episode is wasted my time so after a breakup
0:29.1	as you know one of the most common things you may think is that the person you dated wasted your time
0:35.4	because it didn't work out or that you wasted your time because it didn't work out.
0:41.5	And it's like this regret sinks into your veins
0:44.3	and you just wish you could turn back time
0:46.2	and possibly even meet the person altogether.
0:50.0	I know I've definitely felt that before.
0:52.0	You know when you say to someone,
0:54.0	you wasted my time or thanks for wasting my time.
0:59.2	Yeah, I've been there.
1:01.2	Like, oh my God, I can't believe I wasted my time on this person. You get the point.
1:07.0	Probably at least 95% of you listening can relate to this.
1:12.0	Probably more like a hundred, but I'm going to go
1:14.8	with 95. If you focus too much on wasted time however it can drive you crazy and
1:22.0	even cause you anxiety not to mention keep you down in the
1:26.2	dumps much longer than you want to be and it's not even as though you have to date for
1:32.3	several years or even have been married.
1:35.0	You know, maybe even only just dated a few months.
1:38.0	You could still feel like time was wasted.
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