7. Some People Won’t Like You and That’s Ok

Self Care IRL

Ty Alexander

Education, Religion & Spirituality, Spirituality, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.8 • 1.2K Ratings

🗓️ 23 September 2019

⏱️ 13 minutes

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It’s time to lessen likability’s hold on you. In this episode, I break down our obsession with being well-liked and share what I have unpacked about not being liked from my experiences living in New York. RESOURCES: Downloadable Self-Care Guides - https://tyalx.com/downloads CONNECT WITH US: We'd love for you to join our exclusive membership community on Patreon. You'll receive daily pep talks, downloadable monthly self care guides, ad free podcasts, exclusive soul dump audio, guided meditations and more https://www.patreon.com/selfcareirl Follow Self Care IRL on IG: https://www.instagram.com/selfcareirl Follow Ty Alexander on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tyalexander Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:51.1	giving women the tools that they need to choose happiness and create more
0:56.8	joyful moments. I am your host best-selling author and lifestyle blogger Tai Alexander
1:02.2	and I am basically I'm basically your new wellness
1:05.5	hype girl so welcome to the borney. I know it's so corny. Anyway, before we take a deep dive
1:12.2	into today's episode I want to remind you to be sure to rate, review, and subscribe on iTunes if you've enjoyed the podcast so far.
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1:26.6	spiritual toolbox which is filled with lots of gems that I have curated to help you
1:32.0	cultivate those much- life shifting healing experiences.
1:37.0	I've been exploring this idea of being a likable person and what that really means, why do we really care if someone likes us or not?
1:47.0	I'm so glad you asked. Here's why we care.
1:50.0	It's really a form of validation for us.
1:53.8	It's a very warm and comforting feeling
1:56.9	to know that people like you.
1:59.3	Like I said, we feel validated and it makes us feel happy. And when psychologists and such dissect the theories and
2:06.4	concepts of being self-aware, how we are liked has been proven to be viewed as a reflection of who we are to both us and the outside world.
2:16.4	My time in New York tested these theories over and over again.
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