691: How to Listen Like You Mean It with Ximena Vengoechea

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🗓️ 5 August 2021

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Ximena Vengoechea breaks down the formula for effective listening.

— YOU’LL LEARN —

1) The psychological trick to help you stay in the conversation

2) The questions that create better conversation

3) The cues to look out for in a conversation

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— ABOUT XIMENA —

Ximena Vengoechea is a user researcher, writer, and illustrator whose work on personal and professional development has been published in Inc., The Washington Post, Newsweek, and Huffington Post. She is the author of Listen Like You Mean it: Reclaiming the Lost Art of True Connection (Portfolio/Penguin Random House).

She is a contributor at Fast Company and The Muse, and writes Letters from Ximena, a newsletter on tech, culture, career, and creativity. She is best known for her project The Life Audit. An experienced manager, mentor, and researcher in the tech industry, she previously worked at Pinterest, LinkedIn, and Twitter.

• Book: Listen Like You Mean It: Reclaiming the Lost Art of True Connection

• Website: XimenaVengoechea.com

— RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —

• Book: Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close by Aminatou Sow & Ann Friedman

• Book: Reclaiming Conversation: The Power of Talk in a Digital Age by Sherry Turkle

• Book: Walk Two Moons by Sharon Creech

• Book: What Every Body Is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-Reading People by Joe Navarro

• Past episode: 341: Decoding Body Language with ex-FBI Special Agent Joe Navarro

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0:00.0	Welcome to the How to Be Awesome at Your Job Podcast.
0:04.0	The show where brilliant professionals share how to sharpen the universal skills required
0:08.6	to flourish at work.
0:10.1	Enjoy more career fun, wins, meaning, and money with your host, Pete McIdoz.
0:16.0	Hello and thanks for joining us here for episode 691 with Jiménez Van Guicella.
0:24.0	Jiménez has spent a career listening deeply well under the surface to discover
0:29.7	insights and she'll share how we can do the same.
0:32.1	So you'll learn one, the psychological trick to help you stay in the conversation.
0:35.9	Two, the questions that create better conversations.
0:38.9	And three, the key is to look out for within that conversation.
0:42.7	So if you want to check out the show notes or the transcript or the links to Owens
0:45.1	we've referenced, please visit us over at awesomenetyourjob.com slash EP691.
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1:11.1	So here's a story about Jiménez Van Guicella is a user researcher, writer and illustrator
1:16.0	whose work on personal and professional development has been published on platforms
1:19.9	including Inc. The Washington Post, Newsweek, and Huffington Post.
1:23.3	She is the author of Listen Like You Mean It reclaiming The Lost Art of True Connection
1:27.9	by Portfolio Penguin Random House.
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