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669. Narcissism Red Flags, Healing from Abuse + Moving Toward Healthy Love with Dr. Ramani

Almost 30

Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik

Alternative Health, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education

4.54K Ratings

🗓️ 20 February 2024

⏱️ 117 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Krista welcomes Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a licensed clinical psychologist famous for her expertise in narcissism. On a mission to educate the masses about this high-conflict personality type, Dr. Ramani hosts the popular Navigating Narcissism podcast and has written several books, including the forthcoming, It’s Not You, available for preorder now.  Dr. Ramani unpacks the complexities of dating in a narcissistic world and warns of the biggest red flags to look out for, such as 'approach avoidance' and 'future faking' behaviors. Krista + Dr. Ramani also connect attachment styles to narcissism and explain how to set boundaries around manipulative behavior.  Sharing personal stories about her own experiences in narcissistic relationships, Dr. Ramani details the different types of narcissism you might encounter – from grandiose to vulnerable. In the age of social media, narcissism is an epidemic, but Dr. Ramani explains that healing is possible and fulfilling, healthy relationships are waiting on the other side of this work.  We also talk about: Creating a compelling dating app profile Recognizing and coping with narcissistic behavior 'Gray rocking' + 'yellow rocking' tactics Narcissistic abuse + exhaustion Moderate narcissism Leaving toxic relationships The history of narcissism The importance of trauma-informed therapy Resources: Preorder Now: It’s Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ Instagram: @doctor.ramani Podcast: Navigating Narcissism Sponsors: Act + Acre | Visit actandacre.com to take the quiz and see which scalp care system is right for you. Use code ALMOST30 at checkout.  Natural Cycles | Use code Almost30 at naturalcycles.com to get 15% off an annual subscription + a free thermometer. Cymbiotika | Visit cymbiotika.com and use code ALMOST30 to get 20% off sitewide.  Veri | Visit veri.co and use code VSM-ALMOST30 to receive $30 off at checkout.  To advertise on our podcast, please reach out to sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/Almost30.  Learn More: almost30.com/learn almost30.com/morningmicrodose almost30.com/courses  Join our community: almost30.com/membership facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer.  Find more to love at almost30.com! Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Almost 30 Podcast. I'm Lindsay and I'm Krista and we're your hosts, guides and friends on this path.

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Almost 30 is not about your age, it's about the feeling.

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All of us are almost something seeking community and resources

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to support the rumblings of transformation within us. Our conversations are deep dives

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shepherded by our insatiable curiosity and desire for connection, enduring inspiration, and a sense of levity that we can all benefit from.

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We're looking to find the magic in the human experience.

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Buckle love, baby, your evolution is waiting. Hello and

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Hey babies, it's us.

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What's up?

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Chris and Lindsey here on the couch.

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Mm-hmm.

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Same old couch that all these podcasters be podcasting on.

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Lots of famous butts on the couch.

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almost eight years now, and we appreciate you.

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If you're new, we have a whole world you can dive into.

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We have over 600 episodes.

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incredible if you want to go deeper with us. You can learn more at almost30.com.

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