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Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? with Emily Fletcher

65. Telling The Truth About Your Lies with Lauren Zander

Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? with Emily Fletcher

Emily Fletcher

Education

4.9532 Ratings

🗓️ 10 December 2024

⏱️ 70 minutes

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Summary

In this thought-provoking episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily Fletcher sits down with Lauren Zander, co-founder of the Handel Group, to dive deep into the lies we tell ourselves and others—and how they keep us from living our dreams. Lauren shares her transformative methodology for uncovering and addressing the lies, excuses, and limiting beliefs that hold us back, offering a clear path toward greater integrity, fulfillment, and alignment with our true desires. Explore the seven types of lies we all tell, the relationship between truth-telling and manifestation, and the power of designing your life with intention. From personal integrity to the art of difficult conversations, Lauren’s unique approach combines tough love with actionable steps to unlock your highest potential. ✨ Key Topics: The seven types of lies and how they block happiness Why telling the truth is a game-changer for personal growth How to identify your dream life—and take action to achieve it The connection between integrity, truth, and manifestation Tips for navigating hard conversations with love and clarity === 🔗 More from Emily & Ziva: ► LIVE: The Ziva Magic Retreat [Colorado Springs, May 29 - June 1 2025]: https://zivameditation.com/magicretreat ► Join Emily Fletcher's transformative new Embodied Manifesting course - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/magic ► Commit to a daily meditation practice you love with Ziva Meditation - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/jointoday ► Take Ziva's FREE Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/learn ► And follow us on Instagram ► If you prefer to watch this episode on YouTube, click here: YouTube Channel === Lauren Zander is the Founder and CEO of the Handel Group, a master life coach, author, and creator of The Handel Method® and Inner.U. Click on these links to learn more about her work: Website: https://www.handelgroup.com/zivameditation & https://www.inneru.coach/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenzander_coach/

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0:00.0

Sweet friends, welcome to a very special episode of why isn't everyone doing this, the show

0:06.6

brought to you by Ziva Meditation and Ziva Magic. I am your host, Emily Fletcher, Broadway

0:12.1

performer, turned meditation teacher, turned magic maker, and I am so delighted to share

0:17.3

this show with you so that we can help solve the challenges that we're facing as a species and have a great time doing it. So today's episode, we are talking about why isn't

0:25.9

everyone telling the truth about their lies? And this is with my very first coach, Lauren Zander.

0:32.6

So she is the founder and CEO of the Handel group, and I would say a pioneer in the life coaching space.

0:38.3

Her methodologies have been taught at MIT, at Princeton Business School in New York City

0:45.2

public schools, and she's taught people like Hugh Jackman, Questlove, and what an amazing

0:51.4

spot to know everyone's secrets.

1:00.2

And she's really dedicated her life to help eradicate lying, to get people to start telling the truth about their lies.

1:05.6

So in this episode, what I think is so fascinating is that Lauren talks about how the idea of lying is not a morality issue, but rather a happiness issue.

1:10.1

And how facing our fears of these difficult

1:12.9

conversations can lead to outrageous personal transformation. So the trick here is really uncovering

1:18.4

the lives that we tell to ourselves, which is something that I'm personally working on, and how that

1:22.7

can help us to manifest the dreams we didn't even think were possible. Lauren makes a compelling

1:27.3

argument for

1:28.2

getting radically honest first with yourself and then everyone around you so that we can manifest

1:33.6

the life of our wildest imagination. So please enjoy this episode. Welcome to the show, Lauren

1:39.4

Xander. Lauren Xander. Lauren Handelzander.

1:47.5

What are we going by these days?

1:49.9

Lauren Zander.

1:50.6

Lauren Zander, okay.

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